Warning: do not listen on an empty stomach!

For this week's episode of Is It Hot In Here? podcast, Dr Naomi Potter is joined by chef, writer and Masterchef Champion, the wonderful Thomasina Miers.

One thing you should know about Naomi is that she might be a world-class menopause Doctor, but she's not the best in the kitchen... But can Tommi change this?

The podcast team set Naommi the challenge of following one of the simplest (and yummiest!) recipes in Tommi's new Mexican cookbook.

In this episode, Naomi and Tommi also discuss:

🌶️ Learning to love food again

🌶️ How to nourish your body in midlife (even if you hate cooking)

🌶️ The link between food and hormones

🌶️ Tommi's perimenopause experience

🌶️ Menopause and ADHD

And so much more.

This episode is full of flavour, vibrancy, and comfort. Do let us know if you enjoy!

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00:00 – Introduction to Thomasina Miers01:42 – From Masterchef winner to food campaigner04:18 – Why cooking feels overwhelming for busy mums07:05 – How to make healthy meals simple and fast10:12 – Nutrition during perimenopause and menopause13:47 – The power of seasonal eating17:20 – Managing burnout with nourishing food21:09 – Why food culture impacts women’s health24:45 – Small swaps to boost daily nutrition28:36 – Finding joy in cooking again32:14 – Quick recipes for midlife energy36:25 – Why gut health matters in menopause40:02 – Naomi and Thomasina’s personal food tips43:10 – Final thoughts on food, women, and midlife

#menopause #masterchef #nutrition

How can past trauma crop lead to burn out, menopausal problems, and other health issues later in life?

In this episode, Dr Naomi Potter talks to former BBC News presenter turned child therapist Kate Silverton. She opens up about her own menopause journey; in her 20s, Kate had a life threatening health issue that led to the removal of her left ovary. Years later, the faced a full hysterectomy which plunged her into medically induced menopause overnight.

As this experience unfolded, Kate learnt the importance of not 'grinning and bearing' our way through menopause, but recognising the mental load that comes with it and the need to ask for help.

But we aren't just focussing on Kate's own experience today. We're shedding light on a fascinating study that Kate brings to the table. Together, the pair unpick the link between past trauma and burnout in midlife, how unresolved childhood experiences can resurface during menopause, and the crucial role therapy can play in building resilience.

Warm, wise, and full of honest truths, we hope you all enjoy this conversation.

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Further reading and sources for the link between childhood trauma and burnout later in life:

Scared Sick by Meredith Wiley: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Scared-Sick-Childhood-Trauma-Disease-ebook/dp/B06XCD4L9S

The book Scared Sick: The Role of Childhood Trauma in Adult Disease by Robin Karr-Morse and Meredith Wiley explores how early life stress and trauma—especially in infancy and early childhood—can lead to long-term dysregulation of the nervous, immune, and endocrine systems.

Key Conclusion Related to Women in Their Forties:

The authors highlight that many women in their 40s begin to experience immune-related illnesses (like autoimmune disorders, chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia, or inflammatory conditions) that seem to appear “out of nowhere.” However, Scared Sick argues that these conditions are often the long-delayed effects of unresolved early trauma or chronic stress.

00:00 – Kate Silverton’s menopause story

02:02 – Surgical menopause and its immediate impact

04:06 – Stopping HRT while travelling

05:59 – Feeling low and visiting the GP

08:55 – Realising the impact of losing ovaries

10:46 – Deciding to restart HRT

12:21 – Finding the right HRT dose

14:27 – Options for changing HRT methods

16:47 – GP knowledge and when to see a specialist

17:24 – Menopause management as an art and a science

18:38 – Factors affecting how HRT works

19:05 – Testosterone replacement – who it’s for

21:23 – Career change from journalism to child therapy

25:07 – How childhood trauma can resurface at menopause

28:58 – Addressing anxiety when HRT isn’t enough

30:07 – The pressure on modern women and need for community

33:09 – Research linking early trauma and menopause symptoms

34:45 – Advice for menopausal women with a trauma history

36:33 – Where to find trauma-informed help

38:22 – The myth of perfection and self-compassion

39:29 – Managing menopausal rage with children

43:45 – Rebuilding communication with family during menopause

48:59 – Where to find Dr Naomi Potter’s resources

#katesilverton #menopause #childhoodtrauma

Why is your Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) not working properly? Dr. Naomi Potter – menopause specialist – explains why in today's episode.

From incorrect doses and unexpected side effects, there are a number of reasons why your HRT might not be offering the results you're hoping for. However, the brighter side is there is nearly always something that can be done about it.

Please note, this episode is not a substitute for medical advice and we do encourage any women watching, who are struggling with their HRT for menopause, to speak to their own GP and seek further information where necessary.

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00:00 – Introduction: Why your HRT might not be working

00:29 – Why some women don’t feel benefits

01:21 – Managing HRT side effects

01:53 – Why it’s important not to switch HRT too soon

02:14 – Is HRT a quick fix?

03:12 – Common reasons HRT may not work

03:40 – Reason 1: Your dose might be too low

04:31 – Reason 2: You’re not absorbing it properly

06:00 – Why symptoms can return over time

07:54 – Lifestyle factors affecting your HRT

08:27 – How activity and water impact HRT patch absorption

09:44 – When to consider switching from HRT patches

10:32 – HRT and bleeding: What to expect

11:13 – Managing bleeding without a coil

11:41 – Weight loss drugs and progesterone absorption

12:40 – Mood-related side effects of progesterone

13:29 – Adjusting how you take progesterone

13:51 – What is a low-progesterone regime?

14:18 – Oestrogen-related side effects: Migraine and breast tenderness

15:21 – How to manage breast tenderness

15:48 – HRT and fluid retention

16:32 – Could your HRT product be faulty?

18:15 – What to ask your doctor if HRT isn’t working

18:42 – What are the alternatives to HRT?

19:37 – Non-hormonal medications for symptom relief

19:58 – Are herbal remedies effective for menopause?

20:20 – Psychological therapies and complementary treatments

20:45 – Final advice and where to learn more

For more information and support about menopause, you can go to: https://www.menopausecare.co.uk/

#hormonereplacementtherapy #hrt #menopause

How can perimenopause be mistaken for bipolar disorder?

In this episode, Dr Naomi Potter talks to comedian, writer and speaker Cally Beaton about how she was wrongly diagnosed with bipolar disorder when she was actually perimenopausal — a misdiagnosis that happens in more cases than you might realise.

Cally also shares how she reinvented herself in midlife to become a stand-up comedian, how she's struggling to access the HRT she needs, and gets advice from Dr Naomi Potter on how to beat those menopause-induced nighttime surges of anxiety.

This is an eye-opening conversation full of laughter, information, and great advice for midlife women.

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00:00 – Intro to Cally

00:28 – From TV boardrooms to comedy clubs

00:59 – Joan Rivers gives life-changing advice

02:33 – Taking the leap into standup

03:21 – From corporate gloss to vulnerability

04:26 – Learning through failure in comedy

05:05 – Balancing comedy and corporate life

05:35 – cComedy secret revealed in New York

07:51 – The hormonal chaos of our 40s

08:42 – Perimenopause is the real issue

09:19 – When Cally hit rock bottom

10:23 – Juggling too much and crashing

10:54 – Post-stage breakdown and relentless tears

11:25 – Accessing private psychiatric treatment

12:08 – Diagnosed with bipolar at 47

12:54 – Prescribed heavy-duty bipolar meds

13:46 – Finally a GP mentions hormones

14:16 – Realising it was perimenopause all along

14:36 – Off bipolar meds, onto HRT

15:08 – Misdiagnosis of women in psychiatry

16:34 – Hormonal turbulence or psychiatric issue?

17:14 – Fear of long-term bipolar medication

18:01 – Finally coming off the wrong meds

19:34 – Overprescribing and polypharmacy problems

20:11 – HRT patch frustration begins

20:49 – Side effects and stock issues

22:10 – Why HRT access is so hard

25:06 – Perimenopause symptoms: depression to anxiety

25:55 – Hot flushes, night sweats and brain fog

26:35 – The stubborn menopause tummy fat

27:15 – Brain fog vs stage clarity

27:51 – Crippling sleep anxiety in midlife

29:02 – Sleep schedule struggles as a comedian

29:26 – Cally’s current HRT regime

30:03 – Trouble replacing the mirena coil

30:56 – Alternative progesterone options

31:48 – Regular pushback from GPs

32:31 – Long-term safety of HRT

33:36 – Alternatives to HRT patches

34:35 – Chronic sleep deprivation struggles

35:07 – Could progesterone help with sleep?

35:28 – Questions from Cally’s community

35:45 – When is a good time to stop HRT?

36:24 – Managing withdrawal and symptoms

36:46 – On max HRT and still foggy

37:09 – Lifestyle factors beyond hormones

38:05 – Absorption issues and patch quality

38:28 – Testosterone and brain clarity

39:00 – What to expect post-menopause

39:49 – Hormonal chaos eventually settles

40:44 – Libido tips and tricks

41:15 – Understanding the causes of low libido

43:12 – Cally’s upcoming book and tour

44:07 – Fearless reinvention through midlife

44:50 – Mess, midlife, and moving forward

46:10 – Outro

#callybeaton #naomipotter #namastemotherfuckers

We're looking about parenting all wrong in today's world – and you're about to find out why.

This week, we're doing something a bit different and opening up a conversation about something that often overlaps with menopause, and we're seeing more and more of our audience talking about... motherhood!

We know that more and more women in the western world are parenting later in life, which means raising a family is often colliding with the oncoming storm of perimenopause / hormonal turbulence. So what's the secret to coping?!

Let's hear from the expert.

This week, Dr Naomi Potter is joined by parenting specialist, coach, and podcaster Zoe Blaskey to explore the hidden pressures mothers face during midlife and why so many women feel exhausted, overwhelmed, and guilty.

Zoe introduces us to the concept of matrescence – the psychological and physical transition into motherhood – and explains why this stage of life needs the same awareness and support as menopause. Together, they discuss practical ways to protect your energy, manage your mindset, and parent with more compassion towards yourself, even on the toughest days.

If you’re a busy, burnt-out mum wondering, “Is it just me?”, this conversation will leave you feeling seen and supported.

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00:00 – Introduction to Zoe Blaskey

01:47 – What is matrescence?

03:19 – Questioning identity after motherhood

04:29 – Why matrescence needs recognition

05:22 – Birth trauma and lack of support

06:14 – Sleep deprivation and confidence dips

06:48 – The need for paternity leave

07:22 – Managing energy as mothers

08:08 – Two-minute rule for energy

08:42 – The phone battery analogy

09:38 – Knowing what recharges you

10:11 – Why self-care isn't enough

10:49 – Energy management over self-care

11:31 – Please follow and share, and an intro to Motherkind

12:26 – Parallels with menopause awareness

13:44 – Backlash around menopause conversations

15:04 – Social media polarisation

15:31 – Criticism of working mothers

16:27 – Matrescence and perimenopause overlap

17:04 – Being a friend to yourself

18:15 – Using self-talk to shift perspective

19:37 – Practising self-compassion

20:11 – Negativity bias in motherhood

20:44 – Noticing what you’ve done

21:33 – Listener question: conflict with kids

22:09 – Why we snap at our kids

23:05 – Understanding anger triggers

24:16 – Recognising bodily cues

24:54 – Regulating in the moment

25:26 – It's normal to shout sometimes

25:48 – It's OK to feel annoyed

26:19 – Listener question: hormones and emotions

27:32 – Self-awareness before perimenopause

28:07 – Warning close ones about changes

28:38 – Recognising symptoms and seeking help

29:30 – Thank you and reflections

30:09 – Where to find more resources

#zoeblaskey #matrescence #naomipotter

Why do women over 40 disappear from our screens? This week, Dr Naomi Potter is joined by actress, writer, and producer Sally Lindsay to unpack why midlife women — and their real experiences with menopause, motherhood, and ageing — are still invisible in TV and film.

You might know Sally best from her role as Michelle in The Royle Family, or Shelley Unwin in Coronation Street, or even Piella Bakewell in Wallace and Gromit! But most recently, she's been starring, writing and producing the Madame Blanc Mysteries, in which Sally plays antique dealer Jean White. Sally talks about how important this job is to her – how she's putting midlife women in the limelight – and how women can bring far more to the table both on camera and behind the scenes compared to men.

This is an empowering, funny, and honest conversation reminding us that women in midlife deserve to be seen — and heard.

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00:00 – Welcome & introduction

02:02 – Why TV still prefers men in key roles

03:01 – The struggle to get female-led dramas made

04:34 – Where are all the female writers in TV?

05:42 – Motherhood, childcare & losing women in the industry

07:05 – Midlife women and missing roles on screen

08:33 – Why Sally writes roles for women over 50

10:05 – The reality of casting women in midlife

11:04 – Bringing menopause and hot flushes to TV

12:32 – The power (and freedom) of menopause

14:09 – Sally’s personal perimenopause journey

16:02 – Brain fog, anxiety & the fear of losing yourself

18:03 – The life-changing impact of HRT

20:02 – Managing anxiety during menopause

22:04 – The battle women face getting HRT

24:03 – Sally’s experience starting HRT

26:03 – Travelling with HRT & the stress of access

28:04 – If men went through this, it would be everywhere

30:05 – Why has progress on menopause care stalled?

32:02 – Support (or lack of) from friends who didn’t struggle

33:04 – Listener question: Balancing career & family life

36:02 – Listener question: Anxiety, brain fog & confidence at work

39:01 – Final thoughts & where to find support

#sallylindsay #madameblanc #naomipotter

If you could ask menopause specialist Dr Naomi Potter anything, what would it be?

Is It Hot In Here podcast has hit 100,000 downloads! Thank you all for being part of our community. As a way of giving back, Naomi is sitting down today to answer as many questions sent in from all of you about menopause, perimenopause, HRT, midlife, and so much more. 

From “What does the future of HRT look like?” to “How did you first gain interest in menopause?”, Naomi shares all. She also chats about future dream guests and more updates about the podcast itself. 

What milestone do you think we should aim to reach next? 200K? 500K? Let us know in the comments below!

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00:00 – Intro

0:15 – Why did Dr Naomi Potter start this podcast?

0:42 – How did Dr Naomi Potter end up specialising in menopause?

2:15 – Who would Naomi like to have as a guest on the podcast?

3:16 – Will menopause ever get the level of support it deserves?

4:42 – What's Naomi's secret to balancing podcasting, being a Doctor, and a mum?

5:12 – Is brain fog curable?

6:05 – What does the future of HRT look like?

6:33 – How to get testosterone in the UK?

7:40 – How do we know if oestrogen is working?

8:51 – Can HRT help my skin?

9:27 – What alternatives can I use for HRT if I have had breast cancer?

11:27 – Can you use HRT with epilepsy?

12:20 – Is it OK to cut my HRT oestrogen patch in half?

13:06 – Am I too old for HRT?

14:35 – How do you know if you need more progesterone with a mirena coil?

15:27 – How to stop waking up in the night?

16:58 – Who can you trust online about menopause?

18:00 – Outro

#menopause #hrt #naomipotter

Can you be a boss AND handle menopause?

What’s the secret to balancing a busy worklife, family life AND menopause?

This week on Is It Hot In Here? Dr. Naomi Potter is joined by Executive Director of The National Theatre, Kate Varah.

This woman is no stranger to managing intense workloads, parenting teens, spending evenings at countless lobbying events and networking exercises, navigating marriage life… all while trying to find your feet in menopause.

Kate’s story is a refreshing look at how any of us can thrive when our calendars are full and our hormones are in flux. Naomi even jokes that Kate might be part robot – but as the layers peel back, we get a deeply honest insight into how she really does it.

Together, they explore how workplaces are beginning to talk more about menopause, the reality of being a high-achieving woman in a C-Suite role, and how to manage symptoms while still showing up in high-pressure environments.

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Want to become your fittest self in your 40s onwards? This 45 minute guide will give you all of the tools you need.

And no, you don’t need a posh kit, expensive gym membership or even any experience to get started.

In this episode of Is It Hot In Here?, Dr. Naomi Potter is joined by midlife fitness expert Caroline Idiens (AKA ⁨Caroline's Circuits). The two discuss who women can build strength, boost energy, and stay active through perimenopause and menopause. Caroline opens up about her own fitness evolution, how resistance training changed her body and mindset in her 50s, and why short, consistent workouts can be more effective than long gym sessions.

Together, they dive into topics like menopause weight gain, joint pain, low motivation, the power of walking, the truth about protein and hormones, and the often-overlooked connection between movement and mental health. Caroline also shares her tips on how to get started with strength training — even if you’ve never picked up a dumbbell in your life.

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00:00 – Intro: meet Caroline Idiens (@carolinescircuits)

01:32 – Why Caroline started strength training in midlife

03:08 – What is resistance training? (and why it matters after 40)

05:10 – Caroline’s workout routine: structure, duration & frequency

07:45 – Walking, hormones & mental health: a powerful combo

09:30 – How strength training boosts mood, confidence & energy

11:48 – Will lifting weights make you bulky? (spoiler: no)

13:22 – Glutes, core & stability: the muscles that matter most

15:00 – Joint pain, menopause & how to modify exercise safely

17:10 – Everyday strength: why midlife fitness isn’t just about looks

19:25 – Menopause & nutrition: the role of protein, sugar & balance

21:40 – Midlife weight gain & belly fat: what's really going on?

24:05 – Sleep & stress in menopause: how exercise can help

26:10 – Caroline’s bedtime routine & supplement stack

28:25 – Struggling with motivation? here’s where to start

30:10 – Building habits that stick: the power of small steps

32:18 – Exercise & anxiety: breaking the spiral

34:00 – Caroline’s go-to modifications for sensitive joints

36:12 – Top supplements Caroline recommends for midlife wellness

38:10 – Avoiding injury after 40: smart training tips

40:15 – Can fitness help with skin, hair & hormone balance?

42:00 – Final advice: keep it simple, stay consistent

#carolinescircuits #menopause #menopauseworkout

Have you heard about HRT but you aren’t sure where to start?

Menopause specialist Dr. Naomi Potter is here to answer the top 10 questions we commonly hear from women when it comes to menopause and HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy). From ‘Is HRT safe?’ to ‘What HRT options are there?’ to ‘How do I know if my HRT is working?’ Naomi shares the up-to-date facts — with compassion, clarity, and zero judgement.

If you're feeling overwhelmed by conflicting advice, or just don’t know what options are available to you, this is the clear conversation you’ve been waiting for — warm, honest, and rooted in science.

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0:00 – Intro to menopause and HRT

0:26 – What is HRT?

0:57 – How does HRT work?

1:55 – When should I consider taking HRT?

3:18 – What different HRT options are out there?

7:25 – What are the benefits of taking HRT?

9:23 – Are there risks involved in taking HRT?

12:40 – Can I change my choice of HRT?

14:03 – What are the signs that my HRT might not be working?

16:08 – What alternatives are there to HRT?

18:27 – How do I find out more about HRT?

19:13 – Outro

#menopause #perimenopause #hrt