Dr. Marianne-Land: An Eating Disorder Recovery Podcast

Why Letting Go of Restriction Feels Unsafe in Eating Disorder Recovery


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Why does letting go of food restriction feel unsafe, even when you're ready to recover? In this solo episode, Dr. Marianne explores how restriction can become a form of survival. She discusses the ways restriction may provide a sense of control, structure, or identity, especially for those who are neurodivergent, live in marginalized bodies, or have trauma histories.

You will learn about the difference between egosyntonic restriction, which feels aligned with your values, and egodystonic restriction, which feels distressing. This insight can help make sense of your internal conflict and guide you toward a more compassionate approach to healing.

This episode offers a perspective rooted in liberation, not compliance. Dr. Marianne invites you to honor the role restriction has played in your life while also creating new ways to feel safe and supported in your body.

📌 In This Episode, Dr. Marianne Covers:

  • Why restriction can feel protective, not harmful

  • How trauma, sensory overload, and executive functioning challenges influence restrictive patterns

  • What it means for restriction to be egosyntonic or egodystonic

  • How restriction can feel both comforting and distressing at the same time

  • Why grief is a natural part of letting go

  • What it looks like to build safety, attunement, and structure without relying on restriction

    ⚠️ Content Cautions:

    This episode includes discussions of restriction, eating disorders, trauma, and anti-fat bias. Please take care of yourself while listening.

    🌱 Want More Support?

    If you’re navigating sensory-based food challenges or ARFID, and want support that centers neurodivergent needs, explore Dr. Marianne’s self-paced course:
    👉 https://www.drmariannemiller.com/arfid

    📚 Related Episodes on Restriction, ARFID, and Anorexia:

    • Autism & Anorexia: When Masking Looks Like Restriction, & Recovery Feels Unsafe on Apple & Spotify.
    • Atypical Anorexia Explained: Why Restriction Happens at Every Body Size on Apple & Spotify.
    • Complexities of Treating ARFID: How a Neurodivergent-Affirming, Sensory-Attuned Approach Works on Apple & Spotify.
    • Understanding Anorexia: Causes, Solutions, & Coping Strategies on Apple & Spotify.
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      If letting go of restriction feels terrifying, you are not alone. In this episode, Dr. Marianne offers grounding, compassion, and support for every step of your recovery.

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