If you’re smart, good looking, have a great job, and just killing it at life - you should have heaps of matches on dating apps, right? Well not exactly... 

We investigate why some successful people are changing their profiles and minimising themselves to get more likes.

Plus, we chat to author and researcher Lisa Portolan who's done some really interesting research on dating app swiping habits. 




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Why you might not be getting matches

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Taking a break from dating, sex and relationships? TikTok's calling it 'boy/girl sober' and it's become a huge trend to delete the apps, reset and go celibate.

We find out why you're going sober and some of the benefits.

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Sexologist Lauren French is here to tell you why, and what to do about it.

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Did you ever experiment when you were first learning to get off? Maybe you used an electric toothbrush, humped a pillow or stuck your dick into an orange.

There's a lot of shame around masturbation, so in this ep we're here to normalise your creative nut techniques.

Why you might not be getting matches

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