Toddlers Made Easy with Dr Cathryn

Why Your Toddler Resists Everything (And What to Do About It)

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Struggling with toddler resistance? This episode breaks down why your child says "no" to everything and how to work with their natural instincts instead of against them.

What You'll Learn

  • What the "You-Can't-Make-Me" reflex is and why it's actually healthy
  • Why toddler brains react with automatic resistance
  • Common triggers (commands, transitions, feeling rushed)
  • What makes things worse (power struggles, taking it personally)
  • Practical strategies for daily routines

    • Key Takeaways

    • The reflex is developmental, not defiance
    • Invite cooperation instead of demanding it
    • Connection is the strongest antidote to resistance
    • Stay calm and confident—you're the CEO
    • Give choices to preserve their sense of control

      • Quick Tips

      • Replace commands with invitations
      • Give transition warnings
      • Pause when resistance peaks
      • Use collaborative language
      • Fill their connection tank with one-on-one time

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