Will the Narcissist Come Back After the Discard?

Do narcissists ever regret discarding a source of supply and not being able to get them back? Sometimes.

But not because they LOVE the person. It's because that person was a source of narcissistic supply - and now there is one less supply that they have now. Of course, victims are all interchangeable to a Narcissist - like toys or socks.

Hoovering usually begins after the devalue and discard phases, when the silent treatment has stopped giving the narcissist pleasure, and when he's ready for more of the supply you've been feeding him all these months or years. Or, it'll start when you've left the narcissist and he fears you won't return.

The idea is that the narcissist needs to reestablish contact with you in order to get the narcissistic supply you're so good at providing.

This is a dangerous tactic, because once he gets his foot in the door, you'll often find yourself being love-bombed and hearing promises of brighter days ahead

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