September 04, 2025

You Are NOT Your Thoughts (This Changes Everything): Episode 182

22 minutes

🔍 The Mind-Blowing Truth: You Are NOT Your Thoughts

Metacognition = Thinking about your thinking. This single concept can revolutionize your entire medical career and life.

Reality Check: Sometimes you get a song stuck in your head. That's not "you" - that's just your brain doing its thing while you observe it happening.

You are the watcher, not the thoughts.

⚡ The Thought-Feeling-Action Chain That Runs Your Life

The Formula: Circumstance → Thought → Feeling → Action → Result

Same circumstance, different thoughts, completely different lives:

Your kid gets a D:

Parent 1: "This is embarrassing" (shame)

Parent 2: "Is he being bullied?" (concern)

Parent 3: "D's happen, no big deal" (calm)

Patient shows up for 20th time with belly pain:

Doctor 1: "Not again!" (frustration)

Doctor 2: "What am I missing?" (curiosity)

Same facts. Wildly different experiences.

🏗️ How Beliefs Build Neural Superhighways

Beliefs = thoughts you've practiced so much they became automatic

The Process:

Single thought = dirt path in woods

Repeated thought = hiking trail

Practiced belief = paved road

Default belief = neural superhighway

Real Example: "I deserve Taco Bell after every shift" started as reward thinking, became automatic habit affecting health for years.

🔧 The Byron Katie Reality Check (4 Questions)

When a thought is causing you pain, ask:

Is it true?

Can you absolutely know it's true?

How do you react when you believe that thought?

Who would you be without that thought?

💪 Belief Change = Mental Gym Workout

The Science: It takes approximately 63 days (three 21-day cycles) to rewire a neural pathway from dirt road to superhighway.

The Process:

Pick a new empowering thought

Feel the feeling in your body (not your head)

Hold it for 10-20 seconds

Repeat multiple times daily

Be patient with the process

Inspiration: Bob Ross went from stern Army sergeant to "happy little accidents" guy by literally rewiring his identity.

⚠️ Common Toxic Programming in Medicine

"Suck it up, buttercup"

"You're responsible for everyone else's happiness"

"I must always be available to be a good doctor"

"I can't do anything else besides medicine"

These beliefs served you once. Do they serve you now?

🎯 This Week's Challenge

Step 1: Catch yourself in a moment of strong emotion Step 2: Ask "What thought is driving this feeling?" Step 3: Just notice it (this alone deserves celebration)

🚨 Important Distinction: This Isn't Toxic Positivity

Don't paste smiley faces over unresolved trauma. Some pain needs professional processing, not just reframing. Your body knows when you're lying to yourself.

The Goal: Find equally true thoughts that actually serve your wellbeing and goals.

🔥 The Ultimate Truth

From Corrie ten Boom's sister in a Nazi concentration camp: She found gratitude for fleas because they kept guards away.

If someone can find empowering thoughts in that horror, you can find them in your daily frustrations.

Your thoughts are not facts. Your beliefs are not permanent. Your neural pathways are malleable.

Start building the superhighways that actually take you where you want to go.

Ready to rewire? Start with one thought this week.

Connect with us: [email protected]

Master your metacognition. Master your life.

...more

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By Drs. Cazier, Dinsmore and Morrison

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September 04, 2025

You Are NOT Your Thoughts (This Changes Everything): Episode 182

22 minutes

🔍 The Mind-Blowing Truth: You Are NOT Your Thoughts

Metacognition = Thinking about your thinking. This single concept can revolutionize your entire medical career and life.

Reality Check: Sometimes you get a song stuck in your head. That's not "you" - that's just your brain doing its thing while you observe it happening.

You are the watcher, not the thoughts.

⚡ The Thought-Feeling-Action Chain That Runs Your Life

The Formula: Circumstance → Thought → Feeling → Action → Result

Same circumstance, different thoughts, completely different lives:

Your kid gets a D:

Parent 1: "This is embarrassing" (shame)

Parent 2: "Is he being bullied?" (concern)

Parent 3: "D's happen, no big deal" (calm)

Patient shows up for 20th time with belly pain:

Doctor 1: "Not again!" (frustration)

Doctor 2: "What am I missing?" (curiosity)

Same facts. Wildly different experiences.

🏗️ How Beliefs Build Neural Superhighways

Beliefs = thoughts you've practiced so much they became automatic

The Process:

Single thought = dirt path in woods

Repeated thought = hiking trail

Practiced belief = paved road

Default belief = neural superhighway

Real Example: "I deserve Taco Bell after every shift" started as reward thinking, became automatic habit affecting health for years.

🔧 The Byron Katie Reality Check (4 Questions)

When a thought is causing you pain, ask:

Is it true?

Can you absolutely know it's true?

How do you react when you believe that thought?

Who would you be without that thought?

💪 Belief Change = Mental Gym Workout

The Science: It takes approximately 63 days (three 21-day cycles) to rewire a neural pathway from dirt road to superhighway.

The Process:

Pick a new empowering thought

Feel the feeling in your body (not your head)

Hold it for 10-20 seconds

Repeat multiple times daily

Be patient with the process

Inspiration: Bob Ross went from stern Army sergeant to "happy little accidents" guy by literally rewiring his identity.

⚠️ Common Toxic Programming in Medicine

"Suck it up, buttercup"

"You're responsible for everyone else's happiness"

"I must always be available to be a good doctor"

"I can't do anything else besides medicine"

These beliefs served you once. Do they serve you now?

🎯 This Week's Challenge

Step 1: Catch yourself in a moment of strong emotion Step 2: Ask "What thought is driving this feeling?" Step 3: Just notice it (this alone deserves celebration)

🚨 Important Distinction: This Isn't Toxic Positivity

Don't paste smiley faces over unresolved trauma. Some pain needs professional processing, not just reframing. Your body knows when you're lying to yourself.

The Goal: Find equally true thoughts that actually serve your wellbeing and goals.

🔥 The Ultimate Truth

From Corrie ten Boom's sister in a Nazi concentration camp: She found gratitude for fleas because they kept guards away.

If someone can find empowering thoughts in that horror, you can find them in your daily frustrations.

Your thoughts are not facts. Your beliefs are not permanent. Your neural pathways are malleable.

Start building the superhighways that actually take you where you want to go.

Ready to rewire? Start with one thought this week.

Connect with us: [email protected]

Master your metacognition. Master your life.

...more