Late text + tight bank account + short night of sleep = The world is ending

That's scarcity taking over your brain.

Definition: A pattern of thinking where you feel you have less of a resource than you need, and that perception dominates your attention, emotion, and choice.

The plot twist: It's not just about money. You can have scarcity around:

Notice the body sensation first (anxiety, chest tightness)

"Right now I'm feeling short on time/sleep/money/support."

Why it works: Verbalizing shifts you from limbic to prefrontal cortex. Naming reduces rumination and opens space for choice.

Create micro buffers:

Why it works: Protects bandwidth so you're not constantly in panic/triage mode

Why it works: Prevents errors, reroutes energy to higher-value thinking

Pro tip: Join the "We Do Not Care Club" (Melanie on Instagram) and start scratching stuff off your list

Abundance mindset—evidence-based practices (not fake optimism) that actually widen your bandwidth

Scarcity is a fear-based mindset living in your limbic system.

It's predictable. It's fixable. And it's happening in small, human ways.

You don't have to stay on that cruise eating canned soup.

What are you decluttering? What don't you care about anymore? Email: [email protected]

Stop living like you don't have enough. Next episode: How to live like you do.

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You learned about dorsal vagal shutdown—that numbness and disconnection physicians feel. Now here's the hope: There are ways to climb back up the ladder.

Sometimes you're so far outside your zone of resilience, you can't outthink it. You have to do something with your body.

SSRIs/SNRIs can help stabilize mood and increase arousal when you're too depleted to self-regulate.

No shame. We work in extreme stress. Therapy and medication are tools, not failures.

Simple ways to enhance vagal tone:

These aren't woo-woo—they're biological recalibrations.

Somatic therapy uses your body during sessions to release stored stress through body awareness and gentle movement.

Real talk: "I go to therapy. I love my therapist. It makes my life so much better. We need to normalize this."

Why it matters: We're treated like we should be superhuman, taking on trauma with no sleep or self-care. That's a recipe for hitting the wall.

Why yoga works: Gets you back into your body where you can reconnect. It's calming in a ventral vagal way (not dorsal shutdown).

Too exhausted to exercise? Try ONE yoga pose for 30 seconds. Just break the frozen state.

Different breathing techniques:

HeartMath device: Like a pulse ox that shows your heart rate variability as you do exercises

Neurofeedback: EEG probes detect when you're revved up—TV goes black until you calm yourself down

Perfect for control enthusiasts: Learn to control your own physiologic responses

Ever been around someone you just feel safe with? That person who makes you laugh and calm down instantly?

That's co-regulation. Seek those people out.

Also works:

Singing increases ventral vagus tone (car singers, rejoice!)

Create your comedy arsenal:

Reminder: Life is worth living. You won't be stuck in dorsal vagal forever.

"This is my dorsal reset. My biological recalibration. Not me failing."

Focus on the EXHALE—that's when parasympathetics turn on

Try the 5-minute body scan:

Text someone you care about. Check in on someone who needed help.

Gets you out of rumination and back into meaning

Speak to yourself with compassion (the strongest antidote to burnout)

Each micro step signals safety to your nervous system.

"This is an era, not who I am."

Sometimes it feels like "maybe this is just who I am now."

NO. Your true self is still in there waiting.

This is a physiologic reaction to things that have been happening to you. Your ventral vagal state—your executive brain—wants to get back online. It wants to reconnect with your empathy, humor, and creativity.

Burnout tricks you into thinking that version of you is gone. That's a lie.

Your nervous system is doing its best. It's meant for survival. With small signals of safety—grounding, breathing, humming—you can return to connection, vitality, and purpose.

Your nervous system is here for you. We're here for you.

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That feeling of burnout numbness isn't your fault. It's not who you are. And it isn't permanent.

Share your recalibration tricks: [email protected]

You can find yourself again. Let's climb together.

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"I feel totally numb. I don't care anymore, and I hate that I don't care."

"Even when I sleep, I wake up tired."

"I used to be so empathetic. Now I just want everyone to leave me alone."

What you're experiencing isn't just burnout—it's dorsal vagal shutdown.

1. Ventral Vagal (Safe Zone) ✨ Calm, connected, creative, social - where we want to be

2. Sympathetic (Fight or Flight) ⚡ Heart racing, hyperalert, frantic productivity mode

3. Dorsal Vagal (Shutdown/Freeze) 🥶 Emotional flatness, complete disconnection, life behind glass Your body playing dead like a possum

Sympathetic overdrive (constant productivity) → Dorsal collapse (complete numbness)

You're cycling between: Fixing everything frantically → Can't even get out of your car at home

The Vagus Nerve has two branches:

Dorsal shutdown creates:

This isn't weakness. This is evolution.

Your nervous system developed this over millennia. When fight/flight fails, your body chooses shutdown to conserve energy and protect you.

We live in near-constant sympathetic overdrive:

Eventually, the system flips to shutdown.

Just having words for this changes everything.

"I'm experiencing dorsal vagal shutdown." "I'm in my dorsal vagal era." "This is a nervous system state—not who I am."

Naming it is a technique for getting out of it.

Taylor Swift has fascinating eras. You have your dorsal vagal era. Nearly every burned-out physician experiences this.

The empowering news: This isn't permanent. Nervous system states change. You can climb back up the ladder.

When your partner says you're "being emotional":

"Actually, I'm experiencing dorsal vagal shutdown due to prolonged sympathetic overdrive."

Boom. Science.

How to climb out of shutdown with medical tools, therapy approaches, and daily practices.

You're not broken. Your nervous system is doing exactly what it evolved to do.

Share your stories: [email protected]

Your nervous system can heal. Let's climb together.

Ever find yourself replaying the same moment from a shift over and over in your head? Lying awake at night running through every step of a procedure? Welcome to rumination—and you're definitely not alone.

In this episode, Amanda, Laura, and Kendra dive deep into the mental trap that keeps so many physicians stuck: ruminative thinking. They break down why our brains do this, the different types of rumination, and most importantly—how to break free from the cycle.

Understanding Rumination:

The Four Types of Rumination:

Why Physicians Struggle:

Breaking the Cycle:

✨ You are more than your rumination - This isn't who you are, it's just what your brain is doing

✨ Pain × Resistance = Suffering - Allowing uncertainty to exist reduces your suffering

✨ Get out of your limbic system - Mindfulness helps you return to your prefrontal cortex

✨ Write it down - Externalizing your thoughts gives your brain permission to rest

The past is unchangeable—no amount of "what ifs" will rewrite it. The only thing that's real is this present moment. And in this moment, you are whole, you are a gift to medicine, and the work you do matters.

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a colleague who might need to hear it. Have thoughts or questions? Reach out at [email protected]

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Welcome back to the Drive Time Debrief! Today, Amanda, Laura, and Kendra are diving into a universal struggle: comparison. Whether it’s at work, on social media, or even within our own families, comparison sneaks in and steals joy, fueling anxiety, burnout, and disconnection. But there’s good news: with awareness, we can flip the script. ✨

In this episode, we unpack:

🔎 The anatomy of comparison — why it’s our default, and how it masquerades as connection.

📚 Insights from Dr. Brené Brown (Atlas of the Heart, The Gifts of Imperfection) and Dr. Caroline Leaf on how comparison impacts our brains and wellbeing.

💡 The shift from comparison → admiration → reverence — and how each step brings more freedom, creativity, and peace.

🏥 Real-life examples inside and outside medicine: patient outcomes, social media highlight reels, even parenting moments.

🌊 “Stay in your lane” wisdom — how focusing on your path fosters growth without the mental scoreboard.

🙌 Practical strategies to move forward:

Name comparison when it shows up.

Flip it into admiration (what can I learn?).

Cultivate awe and reverence through gratitude, nature, and everyday miracles.

Catch yourself in a comparison moment, pause, and choose admiration instead. Bonus points if you share your admiration out loud with someone else — you’ll be amazed at how it transforms connection. 💬

Remember: comparison fuels anxiety, but admiration and reverence foster connection, peace, and joy. You are whole. You are a gift to medicine. And the work you do truly matters. 💖

✨ Tag us with your “From Comparison to Connection” moments on socials or drop us a message at [email protected]  — we’d love to hear how you’re practicing this shift!

Bringing the Soul Back to Medicine with Dr. Mark Sullivan

Medicine isn’t just lab results and checkboxes—it’s about humans caring for humans. 💙 In this episode, Dr. Mark Sullivan, a physician with a heart for whole-person care, reminds us what truly matters: listening, presence, and compassion.

We talk about:
🌟 Why “to be heard is to be healed” may be the most powerful prescription
🌟 The Four Pillars he uses with every patient (sleep, nutrition, movement, boundaries)
🌟 How to protect your time and your soul in a rushed system
🌟 Burnout vs. moral injury—and why your calling still matters
🌟 Three simple “assignments” every doctor (and human!) can use to reset

This conversation is hopeful, practical, and inspiring. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep your spark alive in medicine—or life—you’re going to love this one.

✨ Tune in, get encouraged, and remember: you are whole, you are a gift, and the work you do matters.

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Ever notice how one little mess—a pile of mail, a sink full of dishes, or shoes scattered everywhere—can snowball into stress, frustration, and overwhelm? In this episode, Dr. Amanda Dinsmore, Dr. Laura Cazier, and Dr. Kendra Morrison dive into the Broken Windows Theory and how tiny signs of neglect (at home or at work) can quietly erode your sense of peace and control.

But here’s the good news: just as small signs of disorder add up, so do small acts of repair. 💡

✨ The surprising psychology behind the Broken Windows principle and why it matters for your wellbeing.
✨ Everyday “broken windows” that sneak into home life—dishes, mail piles, laundry, cluttered counters—and how they impact mood and stress.
✨ Work “broken windows” like backlog charting, inbox overload, messy workstations, and how they drain focus.
✨ Tiny but powerful interventions (make the bed, sort one stack of mail, answer one inbox message) that restore order and calm.
✨ How to use habit stacking and micro-routines to turn chaos into clarity.
✨ Mindset windows: reframing critical thoughts, reducing perfectionism, and keeping your prefrontal cortex online.

✔️ You’ll feel validated (yes, those dishes really do make a difference!).
✔️ You’ll gain practical, doable hacks you can try TODAY.
✔️ You’ll discover how micro-decisions build momentum, reduce stress, and create a sense of accomplishment.
✔️ You’ll be reminded that you are not alone—everyone has “broken windows,” and attending to them is a gift to yourself.

✨ Listener Challenge: Do one small “window repair” today. Make the bed, clear a counter, or sort the mail—then notice how your energy shifts.

💬 We’d love to hear YOUR strategies for spotting and fixing broken windows before they spiral! Share them with us at [email protected] .

And remember:
👉 A stitch in time saves nine.
👉 You are whole.
👉 You are a gift to medicine.
👉 The work you do matters.

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Society glamorizes perfectionism, but psychology reveals a darker reality: Most physicians enter medical school as healthy high achievers but graduate as maladaptive perfectionists.

The shift happens around year 2 of med school - from being driven by potential to being driven by fear of criticism.

Healthy High Achiever:

Maladaptive Perfectionist:

The most dangerous habit: Everything is perfect or disaster. One complication = entire day failed. One missed note = fraud.

Reality check: Medicine is full of nuance and shades of gray. All-or-nothing thinking erases partial successes and turns normal complexity into emotional catastrophe.

The Mental Movie Reel:

Physical & Emotional Symptoms:

The Research: Perfectionism + imposter syndrome = strongest predictor of physician distress (even more than workload)

"Treat myself like I would treat other people"

Revolutionary concept for doctors: Your charts don't need to be Nobel Prize literature

After each shift: List 3 things that went well, 1 thing to improve

Real example: Doctor brought dark chocolate kisses to work. Every time she kept her cool in a tense situation → pop a kiss → celebrate the win. Result: Less irritability, better relationships, rewired brain.

"To be heard is to be healed"

Maladaptive perfectionism looks like hard work on the outside but feels like chronic self-criticism, fear, and exhaustion on the inside.

The antidote isn't abandoning excellence - it's redefining it.

From impossible flawlessness → resilient human high achievement

Your worth is inherent because you're human, not because you're perfect.

Ready to break free from the perfectionism trap? Start with one B-minus piece of work this week.

Email your perfectionism quirks to [email protected] - we see you

Excellence without exhaustion is possible.

Metacognition = Thinking about your thinking. This single concept can revolutionize your entire medical career and life.

Reality Check: Sometimes you get a song stuck in your head. That's not "you" - that's just your brain doing its thing while you observe it happening.

You are the watcher, not the thoughts.

The Formula: Circumstance → Thought → Feeling → Action → Result

Same circumstance, different thoughts, completely different lives:

Your kid gets a D:

Patient shows up for 20th time with belly pain:

Same facts. Wildly different experiences.

Beliefs = thoughts you've practiced so much they became automatic

The Process:

Real Example: "I deserve Taco Bell after every shift" started as reward thinking, became automatic habit affecting health for years.

When a thought is causing you pain, ask:

The Science: It takes approximately 63 days (three 21-day cycles) to rewire a neural pathway from dirt road to superhighway.

The Process:

Inspiration: Bob Ross went from stern Army sergeant to "happy little accidents" guy by literally rewiring his identity.

These beliefs served you once. Do they serve you now?

Step 1: Catch yourself in a moment of strong emotion Step 2: Ask "What thought is driving this feeling?" Step 3: Just notice it (this alone deserves celebration)

Don't paste smiley faces over unresolved trauma. Some pain needs professional processing, not just reframing. Your body knows when you're lying to yourself.

The Goal: Find equally true thoughts that actually serve your wellbeing and goals.

From Corrie ten Boom's sister in a Nazi concentration camp: She found gratitude for fleas because they kept guards away.

If someone can find empowering thoughts in that horror, you can find them in your daily frustrations.

Your thoughts are not facts. Your beliefs are not permanent. Your neural pathways are malleable.

Start building the superhighways that actually take you where you want to go.

Ready to rewire? Start with one thought this week.

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Master your metacognition. Master your life.

Fleas in a jar learn to jump only as high as the lid - even after it's removed. Sound familiar? This is learned helplessness in action, and it's quietly sabotaging your career and wellbeing.

The Pattern: Try to improve things → Get shut down → Stop trying → Accept dysfunction as "normal"

Real Examples:

When YOU stop pushing boundaries, the system gets comfortable with YOUR discomfort. They'll gladly let you overfunction until you burn out, then replace you with the next overfunctioner.

But here's the kicker: Your silence isn't protecting you - it's enabling a broken system.

Most limits are learned, not real. That lid was removed long ago - you just haven't tested how high you can actually jump.

Your voice matters. Your boundaries matter. Your wellbeing matters.

The system needs healthy, empowered physicians who refuse to accept dysfunction as normal.

Ready to break free? Start with one micro experiment this week.

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Email your breakthrough stories to [email protected]

Transform your limits into launching pads - you're capable of more than you know.