March 15, 2025

013 ｜小猫故事会｜缘，喵不可言 Tales of how we got chosen by our cats

59 minutes

【聊了什么The What】

这一期药师用直播开麦的形式跟朋友们聊了聊生命中重要的亲密关系——小猫。虽然猫猫每天看似只是在晒太阳，偶尔挑食，有时捣乱，但它却在无言中架起了我们与朋友相聚的桥梁，成为我们漂泊生活中的家的锚点。养猫的过程里猫猫和我们都一起不断地变化着，我们也学会接受多种多样的人猫的关系模式。无论你家中有猫没猫，都希望这期节目能为你带来一丝春天的猫猫能量！🐾

In this episode, we talked about an important intimate relationship in life—cats. While cats may seem to spend their days just sunbathing, being picky eaters, or occasionally causing mischief, they silently build bridges that connect us with friends and anchor our diaspora lives to a sense of home. The journey of raising a cat is one of continuous change, for both the cat and ourselves, teaching us to embrace diverse forms of relationship dynamics. Whether you have a cat or not, we hope this episode brings you a little bit of that springtime feline energy! 🐾

【五月天购票链接】

今年3月29日，五月天成团25周年“回到那一天”演唱会将登陆拉斯维加斯忠实体育场（Allegiant Stadium）。这是五月天北美巡演的唯一一场，请记住，是唯一一场，也是华语歌手在北美开唱的最大规模和最高规格。演出将斥资千万美金打造，从巨型五球华丽舞美，到环场巴士，带你体验原汁原味的五月天魅力。

3月29日这个日子也很特别，是五月天正式成军的纪念日。从七号公园初次登场的那个三月，到拉斯维加斯五万人共享的星空，我们一起坐上时光机，穿越回忆任意门，体验一趟精彩万分的旅程，回到属于你和五月天的那一天。

无论你来自哪个国家，无论你是听着五月天歌长大的老粉，还是刚刚喜欢上他们音乐的新粉，这场演唱会，都不容错过。

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【时间轴 The When】

04:35 艾斯姬貘和文森特/阿尔森的故事

07:54 烤和刀刀的故事

14:57 抽和哈库/塔塔的故事

21:25 珍珍和Cookie的故事

29:09 Momo和十七的故事

36:16 小猫是我最亲密的关系

39:52 我是猫干妈，也是Situationship，养它就是为了送走它

41:45 生活空间的“适猫化”改造

45:00 猫让更多朋友走进我家，让家有了公共空间的属性

46:38 猫猫的边界感：小猫也不是随叫随到的！

50:17 猫猫和人的需求是动态平衡的

52:10 误解和低估小猫的瞬间

54:48 小猫让我学会不需要语言就可以表达爱

56:33 没有想过猫会不会爱我这件事

58:52 我们和小猫的关系也是一种多边关系

04:35—The story of Aisjimo and Vincent/Arson

07:54—The story of Kao and Daodao

14:57—The story of Chou and Haku/Tata

21:25—The story of Zhenzhen and Cookie

29:09—The story of Momo and Shiqi

36:16—My cat is my most intimate relationship

39:52—I’m a cat godmother and also in a "situationship"—raising them just to let them go

41:45—Making living spaces more "cat-friendly"

45:00—Cats bring more friends into my home, turning it into a shared space

46:38—Boundaries of cats

50:17—The dynamic balance between a cat’s needs and a human’s needs

52:10—Moments of misunderstanding and underestimating cats

54:48—My cat taught me that love can be expressed without words

56:33—Never wondered whether my cat loves me or not

58:52—Our relationship with cats is also a kind of poly relationship

【拓展链接 The Links】

越烤越糊 Overcooked｜第十四道：这年头不用表情包都不会聊天了：https://www.xiaoyuzhoufm.com/episode/615f9eeeae1d32c4f86c2620

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【我们是谁】

大波福娃是一档出梗下饭的中文女子脱口秀节目，这里聚集了一群在海外生活的女权主义者，我们通过嬉笑怒骂的方式观察世界，调侃父权。我们希望通过播客的形式鼓励更多的酷儿、女性讲述自己的故事，用笑声对抗禁忌，用幽默消解规训。

Dat Beauvoir is a Chinese podcast centered around female and queer joy. Our mission is to challenge outdated stereotypes about feminists and feminism through thoughtful and lighthearted conversations. We hope to empower our listeners to share their stories, own their truth, and channel their rage at the patriarchy into something they can laugh about.

Hosted by 小苕, 药师 and 蕨菜—members of the Chinese diaspora living abroad—we bring fresh perspectives and unapologetic laughs to every episode. While we don’t take ourselves too seriously, we’re fully committed to delivering stories that're bold, thoughtful, and refreshingly disruptive.

本期我们的主播和嘉宾：

药师（they/them)：精通家庭妙招一千例，身手灵活，可以倒立和劈叉，目前热衷的事业是研发广东北菜。

Our hosts and guests:

Yaoshi (they/them): Specialized at unpopular life hacks. Will serve you witchy Guangdong soup based on your mood.

本期节目由药师制作/音频编辑，本期封面由小苕设计，音乐由跑跑制作。猫声来自十七和哈库。

大波福娃是一档由百花传媒出品的播客。

This episode was produced by Yaoshi, edited by Yaoshi. Logo design by Ruby, cover design by Xiaoshao. Music produced by Runrun. Cat sounds from Shiqi and Haku.

Dat Beauvoir is a podcast produced by Baihua Media.

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