We recently did an episode on the impact of intergenerational trauma, which was about how the ways we were parented, and even the ways our parents were parented, ends up influencing the relationship we have with our children – and often not in a positive way.

But there’s another side to this story: relationships between the generations can actually have enormously beneficial effects on children’s lives, even when these are affected by issues like radically different parenting styles, and mental illness.

Today we explore the more positive side of intergenerational relationship with Dr. Peter Whitehouse, who (along with his wife, Cathy) co-founded The Intergenerational School in Cleveland, OH, which is now part of a small network of three schools that use this model.

Have you ever thought about how you talk about ageing effects what your children think about older people? (I hadn’t, but I have now!) Do you struggle to navigate the difference between the things your parents want to say to and buy for your child, and your own values? Do you worry about what your child might think of their grandparent’s absent-mindedness or volatility? Join us as Dr. Whitehouse and I navigate a path through these and other issues.

(03:07) The definition of intergenerativity.

(09:04) how people and other cultures interact with the elderly generally, and specifically with grandparents in particular

(13:49) When kids have a good relationship with elders in their own family, they are more open to relationships with adults and elders in society at large.

(16:56) The underlying principle of the intergenerational school and how it differs from a typical school.

(19:35) What an intergenerational playground looks like.

(35:15) The tension we feel in life about the security of the same and the danger of difference.

(39:11) How can families encourage intergenerational relationships?

(51:46) The more we compartmentalize people and categorize them as sick or diseased, the more we're afraid of them.

 

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