10 BDSM SKILLS THAT CAN INFORM ALL RELATIONSHIPS : 04 - FIND YOUR DOM RIGHT

Find your Dom right.

Find your Man right.

Find your Leader right.

These can be guiding principles for navigating one’s relationship.  Keep this as the goal — finding your Dom/Man/Leader right.  When you are not finding them right, pause your connection and do whatever is needed to come back to finding them right.

This principle does not imply that all Doms are always right.  Nor does it mean that all Men or all Leaders are always right.  Not at all.  There is no perfection in this world, and certainly there is no perfection in human relating.

One must remember that the optimal state for relationships is when the person in the follower position is finding the person in the lead position right.  Both parties should do their utmost to arrive at and maintain this state of functionality.

One also needs to bring awareness to egoic and zero-sum games we might be playing to habitually and deliberately make our partners wrong.  Such ego and zero-sum games are relationship destroyers.  

We should also be mindful of outside influences that seem more invested in disrupting the agreements and functionality between us and our partners.

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