10 BDSM Skills That Can Inform All Relationships : 06 - Own Each Other! / Or, How Relationships Die!

Owning a human being is a concept that is a bit out of date by normal standards.

As with all things in the BDSM realm, distinctions need to be made between the CONSENSUAL and the NON-CONSENSUAL.

Consensual Ownership might be an energy that is direly needed in our culture today.

My offer is that ownership is at the heart of what makes all relationships work.  This certainly applies to romantic relationships, whether they be kinky or not.  Beyond that, it even applies to familial relationships and even work relationships. 

Our life energy flow into that which we own.  When we own the people we care for, we nurture them, and as a result, those relationships flourish.

When we withdraw our ownerships energies from a relationship, that relationship begins to wither and deteriorate.

It could even be said that the bulk of the lies we perpetrate in relationships are lies about how much we truly own someone.

— Om Rupani.

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