The Hey, Girlfriend Podcast

103. Stop Begging Him: How to Retrain Your Ego to be a Bodyguard, Not a Beggar


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Walking away isn’t always about heartbreak—it’s about self-respect. In this video, I share the truth about what it means to leave a man who will never get it. Too often, our ego tricks us into thinking we need to prove ourselves to him, when really, our power comes from letting go.


This is about retraining your ego to work for you—to be your bodyguard, not your beggar. It’s about no longer chasing validation from a man who cannot see your worth, and standing firm in the truth of who you are.

If you’ve ever found yourself trying to “make him see,” this message is for you. You don’t have to beg for love—you are love. 💫


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