<a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1555754/open_sms">Send us a text</a>One of the most frustrating patterns for anxious attachers can be the fact they feel more attracted to unavailable folk than the available ones. This goes against your desire for a long term relationship! In this episode, Carly Ann discusses why you are less attracted to the nice ones!Other useful links: <ul> <li> <a href='https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym'>The Attachment Recovery Gym</a> (Doors OPEN)</li> <li><a href='https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/becoming-secure-course'>Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)</a></li> <li><a href='https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Anxious-Attachment-Bundle-Signup'>FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE</a></li> <li><a href='%20https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_'>Follow Carly Ann on Instagram</a></li> </ul>

Send us a text One of the most frustrating patterns for anxious attachers can be the fact they feel more attracted to unavailable folk than the available ones. This goes against your desire for a long term relationship! In this episode, Carly Ann discusses why you are less attracted to the nice ones! Other useful links: The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN) Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025) FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

<a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1555754/open_sms" rel="noopener noreferrer">Send us a text</a>One of the most frustrating patterns for anxious attachers can be the fact they feel more attracted to unavailable folk than the available ones. This goes against your desire for a long term relationship! In this episode, Carly Ann discusses why you are less attracted to the nice ones!Other useful links: <ul> <li> <a href="https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Attachment Recovery Gym</a> (Doors OPEN)</li> <li><a href="https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/becoming-secure-course" rel="noopener noreferrer">Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)</a></li> <li><a href="https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Anxious-Attachment-Bundle-Signup" rel="noopener noreferrer">FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE</a></li> <li><a href="%20https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_" rel="noopener noreferrer">Follow Carly Ann on Instagram</a></li> </ul>

123. Lessons in why Anxious Attachers are Not Attracted to Available/Secure People

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment is the podcast for people who are still struggling with overthinking, anxious attachment patterns, or chasing unavailable partners...even though you understand the theory.With a lifetime of personal experience and over 15 years of professional experience, I (Carly Ann) am here to help you move beyond just knowing the logic of attachment and actually start applying it to create real change. You should know, my podcast isn’t about getting your ex back or making your partner fix your anxiety. Lessons in Attachment is about empowering you to become your own coach - using attachment theory, third-wave CBT techniques, and practical tools to transform your daily life.&nbsp; We dive deep into life-changing topics, so be sure to take care of yourself along the way. This is the podcast that helps you finally shift your attachment style and stop letting worry control your life Come and get to know me more on Instagram @carly.ann_ or head to www.carly-ann.co.uk for freebies and community!

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Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment is the podcast for people who are still struggling with overthinking, anxious attachment patterns, or chasing unavailable partners...even though you understand the theory. With a lifetime of personal experience and over 15 years of professional experience, I (Carly Ann) am here to help you move beyond just knowing the logic of attachment and actually start applying it to create real change. You should know, my podcast isn’t about getting your ex back or making your partner fix your anxiety. Lessons in Attachment is about empowering you to become your own coach - using attachment theory, third-wave CBT techniques, and practical tools to transform your daily life.  We dive deep into life-changing topics, so be sure to take care of yourself along the way. This is the podcast that helps you finally shift your attachment style and stop letting worry control your life Come and get to know me more on Instagram @carly.ann_ or head to www.carly-ann.co.uk for freebies and community!

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