We’ve all seen the movies: someone suspects they’re being cheated on, so they call a private investigator to follow their partner in a high-speed chase that ends in a dramatic scene. However, the reality is just a bit different.

Art Tilis, a private investigator and the Owner of Foglight Investigations, has received many calls from clients who believe their partner is having an affair. According to Art, the investigation process is a bit different from what we’ve seen on television and the big screen—but he has still experienced his fair share of climactic scenes, pun intended.

Join Dr. Marie Murphy in this episode of Your Secret is Safe with Me as she sits down with Art Tilis, a private investigator and the Owner of Foglight Investigations. Together, they talk about Art’s process for investigating a suspected cheater, some of the more interesting cases he’s had, and his advice for if you suspect your partner may be having an affair. Stay tuned.