Anger Secrets

130 - Fighting Fair: 3 Proven Rules to Save Your Relationship


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For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Fighting with loved ones can be tough. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs dives into why the fights happens and how to handle them better.

Learn how small issues, like a forgotten anniversary or a simple comment, can escalate into big arguments, leaving both partners feeling hurt. To break this cycle of anger and arguments, Alastair introduces three essential rules for fighting fair. These rules help couples see arguments as chances to connect, keep communication respectful and work together to find solutions.

For anyone looking to improve their relationship and argue less, this episode is packed with practical strategies.

Key Takeaways:

  • Arguments can be chances to understand your partner better, not just to defend yourself.
  • Keeping communication respectful during heated moments is crucial for a healthy relationship.
  • Working together to find solutions can strengthen your bond instead of tearing it apart.
  • Seeing conflicts as opportunities can change the way you approach disagreements in relationships, and
  • Time-outs during arguments are a sign of wisdom, not weakness; take a break if needed.

Links referenced in this episode:

For more information (and FREE resources) of how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

For a FREE training on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com/training/.

To learn more about The Complete Anger Management System, visit angersecrets.com/course/.

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