Anger Secrets

134 - The Fight You Keep Having — and How to End It for Good


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For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Many couples find themselves stuck in the same argument over and over. They often feel frustrated and exhausted, wondering how to break the cycle. In this episode, anger management expert Alastair shares a three-step approach called the LNC Method.

This method is designed to help couples replace fighting with productive conversations. Alastair emphasises that this isn't just theory; it's a practical way to create understanding and find solutions that work for both partners. By learning to communicate better, you can build happier and more respectful relationships.

Key Takeaways:

  • The same fight with a partner often stems from feeling unheard or uncared for.
  • Using the LNC Method of Listen, Negotiate, and Commit can break repetitive arguments.
  • Listening means understanding your partner's feelings and concerns, not just waiting to talk.
  • Commitment to action is vital after discussions to ensure that solutions are implemented.

Links referenced in this episode:

For more information (and FREE resources) of how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

For a FREE training on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com/training/.

To learn more about The Complete Anger Management System, visit angersecrets.com/course/.

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