This episode is AMAZING with Rachel Zar, renowned sex and relationship therapist.  

We discussed ALL of the things you need to know - and make sure you don't have little ears around you while listening to this!  

1) WHEN is the right time to have sex?

2) If you've had sex with someone, is it advisable / necessary to have sex every time?

3) What's the thing that causes the BEST sex, always?

4) What is the right thing to do with "hair down there"??

5) How do you get to know your own body?

6) If the sex isn't good the first time, what should you do?

7) We don't want men to be inexperienced, but don't want them to have 'hooked up' with too many women?  What gives?

8) When to talk about STI's?

9) What we should be focusing on during sex (hint - it's not just orgasm)!

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If you want to watch Bela's TEDx talk about the "Secret to Finding Lasting Love", click here:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SIyvhq3zWLg&t=48s

Rachel Zar, LMFT, CST is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist who specializes in relationship and sex therapy. Rachel sees clients at Spark Chicago Therapy and at The Center for Sexual Medicine and Menopause at Northwestern Hospital.