Watch my video → How to End Your Child's Meltdowns in 8 Weeks or Less

If you hand a sensitive child a phone too early, their brain gets wired to chase a dopamine hit that normal life can't match.

Screen-time meltdowns with sensitive kids aren't a behavior problem; they're a nervous system reaction. Screens act like an off switch for the vestibular system, which plays a huge role in emotional processing. Your child's feelings get paused while they watch. The moment the screen goes off, everything they bottled up comes back at once.

I'm a Harvard-educated clinical psychologist, a parenting coach, and a mom to three sensitive, emotionally intense kids. After 15 years of working with parents on this, I can tell you the standard advice about timers and warnings isn't enough on its own.

In this episode, I walk you through three things: how to set your sensitive child up for success with screens, how to end screen time without the meltdown, and how to raise a resilient kid in a world where tech, AI, and social media never slow down.

There's also one counterintuitive move I share at the end. Most parents instinctively do the opposite… but once you see the reasoning, the meltdowns start to make a lot more sense.

You’ll learn:

[0:00] Introduction

[1:50] Screens are an off switch for your child's vestibular system

[3:55] Your phone habits are shaping your sensitive child more than you think

[5:52] Moving screen time from an iPad to a TV changed everything for one family

[7:01] Scheduling screen time stops your child from fixating on it all day

[8:05] The morning dopamine hit that sets your child up for a listless day

[9:51] What your child watches, matters just as much as how long they watch

[11:18] Mister Rogers is easier on sensitive nervous systems than fast-moving animation

[12:03] The YouTube algorithm pulls kids from Minecraft into truly weird things

[14:36] Preparing your child for the feelings, not just the five-minute warning

[17:28] Your child's generation is the first to grow up without a play-based childhood

[20:35] AI chats are starting to replace peer friendships and trusted adults 

Resources Mentioned:

The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt | Book or Audiobook

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