Dating Intentionally

152. How To Tell If They're Emotionally Unavailable (And Signs You Are Too)

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In this episode, I'm breaking down what emotional availability is, why it's important, how it relates to attachment style and signs your date isn't emotionally available. I share tips on how to navigate this and when it's a dealbreaker vs not. At the end, I get into signs you might be the emotionally unavailable one and steps to take toward becoming more emotionally available.


Signs someone is emotionally available episode


Questions:

  • Do I feel secure and confident in where I stand with them?
  • Do they communicate openly and consistently?
  • When I express my needs, do they listen and respond?
  • Do they follow through on what they say?
  • Do they make space for me in their life?
  • Do they show up emotionally when I need support?
  • Are they able to acknowledge their emotions and past relationship patterns?
  • Do I feel like I can be fully myself around them?
  • If I were to stop putting in effort, would this relationship still move forward?



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