The Self Love Fix

157. Rewind episode: Jealousy, Self-comparison, + Codependency


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Today we're going to talk about something that most people would deny- the fact that we all get jealous. But what if instead of shoving it down in a well of shame, we instead took a moment to process it?

Chances are when you feel jealousy rear its ugly head, it's not even really about whatever you're envious of. You probably grew up in a household where you were constantly compared to others: a sibling, a classmate, whoever it might have been. This taught you never to truly see yourself or focus on your own needs, but only to view yourself as you related to others. Your path was defined by theirs, or at least, you thought it should have been. In this episode we'll talk more about:

  • How comparison culture causes jealousy
  • What our jealousy might be trying to tell us
  • How to embrace our own personal journey

Jealousy isn't even really about what the other person has or is doing; I'd argue it's actually a signal that you're searching for love and acceptance. It's a warning sign flagging you down that maybe just maybe you're not on a path that will lead you to the happy life you deserve.

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