10 steps to lock in before 2026 ❄️ — this is your chance to reset, realign, and transform before the new year begins. in this podcast, i’m sharing how to design a winter arc routine that’s tailored to your lifestyle and goals. from goal-setting and identity shifts to dopamine detox strategies and glow up secrets, these are the steps that will help you stay consistent, disciplined, and aligned. let’s lock in together this season and build habits, routines, and mindsets that feel sustainable, empowering, and transformative before stepping into 2026 ✨

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00:00 Introduction: The Great Lock-In of 2025
02:53 Step 1: Environment Creates Flow
05:49 Step 2: Set Friction Against Sabotage Habits
07:39 Step 3: Make Your Lock-In Enjoyable
10:08 Step 4: Energy is Everything
11:47 Step 5: Take a Dopamine Detox
13:05 Step 6: Set Your Game Plan
15:00 Step 7: Manifest Like a Pro
17:01 Step 8: Weekly Reviews and Course Corrections
18:26 Step 9: Challenge Your Identity
20:57 Step 10: Forget Your Feelings
22:31 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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the ultimate guide to inner child healing ✨ if you struggle with people-pleasing, over-apologizing, or low self-worth, it often comes from unmet childhood needs. in this video, i’ll show you how to heal your inner child through re-parenting routines, journaling, and neuroplasticity to rewire old beliefs. this is your blueprint to emotional healing, confidence & self love 💗

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00:00 Introduction: Understanding Your Inner Child

04:52 Chapter 1: What is Your Inner Child?

07:36 Chapter 2: How to Heal Your Inner Child

13:45 Chapter 3: Homework

17:32 Conclusion

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this isn’t your average back-to-school advice video — this is the ULTIMATE Back-to-School Guide 2025 to help you glow up your mindset, routines, and study habits while reinventing yourself for the new school year.✨ instead of cliché tips, i’m sharing the mindset shifts and life systems that actually transform your high school experience: handling drama, making genuine friendships, romanticizing daily school life, mastering emotional intelligence, embracing failure as growth, and building effective routines that stick. this video is your blueprint to level up academically, socially, and personally — so you can step into your dream reality this year.

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00:00 — Introduction
01:15 — Chapter 1: Life and Drama
11:25 — Chapter 2: Studying and Goals
18:39 — Chapter 3: Homework
20:22 — Conclusion: Embrace the School Year Ahead

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my new obsessed with manifesting journal is out! 🪄. this isn’t just another manifestation journal you forget about in a week. it’s designed to actually help you rewire your beliefs and step into your dream reality using neuroscience, self-concept work, and powerful manifestation techniques. inside, you’ll find:

✨ a vision board to map out your dream life

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✨ law of assumption scripting & quantum leaping

✨ aligned action plans + manifestation prompts

✨ pages for detachment, self-concept & success tracking

basically, it’s everything i wish i had when i started my manifestation journey. and in this video, i’m also answering some of your most common questions — like how to manifest properly, how to build a journaling routine, and the psychology behind why these practices actually work.if you’re ready to stop manifesting the wrong way + finally create the life you’ve been visualizing, this video is for you.

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00:44 Chapter 1: Manifestation Myths 

02:18 Chapter 2: How is Obsessed with Manifesting Different?

08:02 Chapter 3: Why Does Obsessed with Manifesting Work? 

11:55 Chapter 4: Obsessed with Manifesting Q&A

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• 00:00 Introduction
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• 10:29 Chapter 2: Setting Your Standards
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mastering self-love while dating isn’t always easy — especially when no one talks about the detachment, boundaries, confidence, and self-worth it really takes. if you’ve ever felt like you start shrinking in relationships, this video is for you. i’m sharing the exact mindset shifts that helped me stay independent, grounded, and fully in my power while navigating love. after spending time single, focused on building my dream life and reconnecting with myself, i learned that the right relationship should expand your world — not consume it. whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or healing from one, this video will help you protect your peace, stop overgiving, and keep becoming her — the woman you were always meant to be. 💅🏽💖

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00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Self-Love and Independence

02:21 Chapter 1: The Talk

08:44 Chapter 2: The Lifestyle

15:43 Chapter 3: Homework

18:48 Final Thoughts

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the 5 laws of self-obsession aren’t about being selfish — they’re about how to build unshakable confidence, protect your peace, and start choosing you. in this episode, i share the mindset shifts that helped me heal, stop people pleasing, and finally become the most confident, grounded version of myself. we’ll talk self-love, boundaries, personal growth, and how to rewrite the stories you tell yourself. if you’ve ever been told you’re “too much” for simply prioritizing yourself — this one’s for you. ✨ it’s time to reclaim your power and start living for you. 💅🏽💭💖

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00:00 Introduction: Why Self-Obsession Isn’t Selfish

01:11 Critique of Societal Views on Self-Obsession

02:41 Law 1: The Mirror Law

06:22 Law 2: The Boundary Law

08:25 Law 3: The Celebration Law

10:18 Law 4: The Upgrade Law

13:04 Law 5: The Rewire Law

15:52 Final Words of Empowerment

feeling stuck or in a slump? here’s your sign to reset and realign 🫶 i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 7 reminders and mindset shifts that helped me break out of low-energy phases and reconnect with my higher self. we’ll talk about how to stop spiraling, reconnect with your future self, and turn quiet seasons into your biggest growth moments. whether you’re going through a rough patch or just feeling off, this is your sign to reset, reflect, and step into your comeback era.

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00:00 – Overcoming the Slump Phase

01:14 – Fact 1: Emotions Are Not Reality

03:19 – Fact 2: It's Just a Phase

05:27 – Fact 3: Stop Identifying with the Slump

06:59 – Fact 4: One Decision Away

08:32 – Fact 5: Future Self Knows Best

10:32 – Fact 6: Resisting the Next Version of You

12:28 – Fact 7: You Are Resilient

13:28 – Final Motivation

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💚 you might be pushing away healthy love without even realizing it. in today’s episode, we’re talking about the 10 “red flags” in men that are actually signs of emotional maturity — and why your past might be making you miss them. from taking time to reply, moving slow, having female friends, or even being a little “boring”… these things aren’t toxic, they’re actually green flags 🫶

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01:45 – Debunking Dating Red Flags

01:49 – Green Flag #1: He is Picky

03:13 – Green Flag #2: He Rejects You

04:54 – Green Flag #3: No Past Relationships

05:55 – Green Flag #4: Has Female Friends

07:11 – Green Flag #5: Takes Time to Texting Back

09:03 – Green Flag #6: Challenges You

10:36 – Green Flag #7: He Has His Own Life

12:03 – Green Flag #8: He Moves Slow

13:53 – Green Flag #9: There Are No Sparks

15:48 – Conclusion

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tired of people-pleasing, overthinking, and chasing validation? it’s time to detach, reclaim your confidence, and become the center of your own universe. ✨ we’re talking detachment, self-trust, and the quiet kind of confidence that comes from within. i’ll take you through the exact mindset shifts and weekly habits that help you stop people-pleasing, reconnect with your body, and protect your energy. this isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about coming home to yourself. If you’re in your self-love era and ready to let go of external validation, this one’s for you 💌

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00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Decentering
01:58 Chapter 1: Decentering Everyone and Taking Control of Your Life
09:59 Chapter 2: Centering Yourself and Becoming Self-Obsessed
16:45 Chapter 3: Homework: Practical Steps to Self-Centering
19:04 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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