The Self Love Fix

164. Scarce or Spoiled? When Scarcity Mindset Becomes Entitlement


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Let's talk entitlement and scarcity...and how the two actually go together. Entitlement says, "I deserve a relationship, because I am a wonderful person. I am a catch. I'm amazing." Scarcity says, "I can't have what I want (or deserve) because there isn't enough to go around, so I'm going to turn whatever I have into the thing that I feel I deserve." When both of these mindsets show up to a party together, only trouble can come out of it, right? No matter what you might think, these attitudes aren't going to get you the relationship you're looking for. You know why? The universe doesn't owe you a relationship just because you're a nice or fun or cool person. You can't just show up and expect it to fall into your lap. You have to do the work...and there is work to do. There is a way to get what you want. But you have to learn how to get rid of that entitlement mindset first. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com EPISODE RESOURCES Sign up for the Game of Attraction: https://beatricekamau.mykajabi.com/offers/ueSEVcW Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101
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