Till The Wheels Fall Off

#170 - The Fine Line Between Support and Emotional Burden


Listen Later

Have an episode suggestion? Text us!

As parents, we want to raise strong, resilient kids—but sometimes, without realizing it, we lean on them in ways that can be damaging. In this episode, we’re tackling the tough but crucial topic of parentification, enmeshment, and emotional incest—when kids are put in roles they were never meant to fill.

We break down:

  • How to recognize if you're unintentionally placing emotional burdens on your child
  • What’s healthy honesty with kids vs. oversharing your adult problems
  • The long-term impact of making kids responsible for adult emotions
  • How to foster emotional security without making them your therapist or support system

We discuss our own experience growing up in this dynamic, and we discuss practical ways to break the cycle—because once you see it, you can change it. This isn't about shame; it's about building awareness and making sure our kids get to be kids.

If you’ve ever wondered, Am I putting too much on my child?—this episode is for you.


Find video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!

On the web:
www.twfo.com

Support the Show:
Buy Us a Coffee!

Online Program:
www.independentlystrong.com

Soberlink Device:
www.soberlink.com/wheels

Check out our blog:
https://twfo.com/blog

Follow us on TikTok:
https://tiktok.com/@twfo_couple

Follow us on Instagram:
https://instagram.com/twfo_couple/

Follow us on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/TWFOCouple

Follow us on YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/@twfo_couple

Find Taylor Counseling Group:
https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/

Donate to Counseling for the Future Foundation:
Donate Here

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Till The Wheels Fall OffBy TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

252 ratings


More shows like Till The Wheels Fall Off

View all
The Recovery Show » Finding serenity through 12 step recovery in Al-Anon – a podcast by The Recovery Show

The Recovery Show » Finding serenity through 12 step recovery in Al-Anon – a podcast

1,608 Listeners

Betrayal Trauma Recovery by Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

Betrayal Trauma Recovery

1,420 Listeners

Love and Abuse by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert

Love and Abuse

847 Listeners

Helping Couples Heal Podcast by Marnie Breecker

Helping Couples Heal Podcast

441 Listeners

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast by Kate Anthony, CPCC

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast

570 Listeners

Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs by Lisa A. Romano

Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

779 Listeners

Adult Child by Andrea Ashley

Adult Child

1,850 Listeners

Waking Up to Narcissism by Tony Overbay LMFT

Waking Up to Narcissism

689 Listeners

Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani by iHeartPodcasts

Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani

1,737 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

19,574 Listeners

The Sabrina Zohar Show by The Sabrina Zohar Show

The Sabrina Zohar Show

5,022 Listeners

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse by Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

290 Listeners

You Are Not Crazy by Jessica Knight

You Are Not Crazy

86 Listeners

Why She Stayed by Grace Stuart

Why She Stayed

148 Listeners

The Oprah Podcast by Harpo

The Oprah Podcast

1,849 Listeners