The Self Love Fix

184. Avoidant Attachment Styles + Vulnerability


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The biggest lie avoidant attachment will tell you?

That you're safer never showing anyone the REAL you.

People with avoidant attachment get squeamish AF when someone starts to open up to them. They can't stand the idea of being vulnerable in front of someone else. Their avoidant attachment tells them that the only reason anyone would want to get to know them on a deeper level is so they can have something on them…so they can use that weakness to manipulate and hurt you.

Here's the truth: most people who are romantically interested in you don't have it out for you. And if that's a mindblowing revelation, just wait until you hear what else I have to say…

This one's short and sweet, but boy does it pack a PUNCH. Get ready to have those avoidantly attached lies turned on their head.

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