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189 - When Chaos Calls: Why Men Are Attracted To Conflict and How To Do The Opposite


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Brandon and Boysen take a deep dive into why men are often drawn to chaos and conflict. Together, they explore how societal conditioning, personal histories, and even evolutionary instincts create a craving for drama—sometimes at the cost of peace and joy.

Using examples from their own lives, they discuss the “drama triangle,” the hidden costs of chasing conflict, and how this behavior prevents men from being present with the people and moments that truly matter. Drawing on Scott Barry Kaufman’s research on the “Dark Triad,” they unpack how toxic traits like narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy fuel modern societal divides—particularly in the current political climate.

But this episode isn’t just about understanding the problem; it’s about finding solutions. Learn practical strategies to replace the temporary high of chaos with the long-term fulfillment of purpose, emotional awareness, and love.

Why Listen:

  • Are you caught in a cycle of drama without realizing it?
  • Do you want to build stronger, more peaceful connections with others?
  • Are you tired of feeling manipulated by societal and political divisions?

Join us as we challenge the narrative of modern masculinity, encourage personal responsibility, and ask the ultimate question: Is the juice worth the squeeze?


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Scott Barry Kaufman: The Dark Triad & Impulsivity 

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