The Self Love Fix

198. Holding Your Standards in Dating


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Did you miss the Hold the Standard masterclass? Good news—welcome to the replay!

When people talk about standards, I tend to notice one of three patterns: either someone is copying someone else’s standards because they sound good, without stopping to actually consider whether those standards match with what they’re looking for; someone doesn’t set ANY standards because they don’t know what they want, they just want SOMEONE; or they set conditional standards, which they drop the second someone who doesn’t meet those standards pays them any attention.

I don’t believe we ever drop standards; I believe we never had a hold of them in the first place. Let’s talk about how we can finally hold the standards we claim to have set.

 

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