In order for women to enjoy more sex they need to close their stress cycle BEFORE they will desire to turn to their spouses sexually. Men are different in that typically sex relieves stress. When women understand how their sexual desire works on a biological level and HONOR their own bodies and in turn communicate this to their husbands, then sex becomes a nonissue in marriage. They initiate sex equally as often as their spouse and they desire sex more often because they enjoy sex.