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216 - Breaking Free from Criticism and Defensiveness in Relationships


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What skills are essential to break away from the cycle of blame and defensiveness in relationships?

How can vulnerability and open communication transform your connection with your partner?

What are practical steps for repairing and reconnecting with your partner after a conflict?

In this insightful episode of "Relationship Renovation," hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin delve deep into a topic many couples struggle with – the blame game. Understanding how criticism and defensiveness can erode trust and emotional safety in a relationship is crucial. Tarah and EJ share personal anecdotes, like their recent challenge with their children's cell phone use, to illustrate how easy it is to slip into these patterns and how damaging they can be if left unchecked. They stress the importance of identifying these patterns and offer practical, actionable advice on how to pause, reflect, and transform these negative cycles into opportunities for deeper understanding and connection.

Furthermore, listeners will learn about the Gottman's "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" – criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling – and receive guidance on how to counteract these relationship-killers. Whether you're navigating trust issues rooted in past hurts or simply seeking more empathy from your partner, this episode is packed with strategies to foster mutual respect and resilience. Join Tarah and EJ on this journey to develop healthier communication skills and increase emotional intimacy in your relationship. Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn how to build a relationship where both partners feel heard, valued, and deeply connected.

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