In this episode, Lily addresses the feelings of loneliness that can arise during the holiday season, especially for singles. She provides a three-step framework to help listeners navigate their emotions, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and acknowledging feelings, finding comfort and belonging, and choosing accessible positive thoughts. The conversation encourages self-compassion and resilience, offering practical advice for managing loneliness and fostering emotional well-being.

You’ll learn:

• Recognize that loneliness is a hard moment and allow yourself to feel it.
• Emotional granularity helps in understanding and processing feelings.
• Self-soothing is essential for immediate comfort during loneliness.
• Reaching out to friends for support is crucial, even if they can't always respond.
• Creating a joy-building plan can help combat feelings of loneliness.
• Choosing accessible positive thoughts can shift your mindset.
• It's normal to feel lonely, especially during the holidays.
• Building resilience helps in managing future feelings of loneliness.
• You are worthy of love and support, regardless of your current situation.
• Your desire for connection is valid and can guide you towards it.

 

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