Welcome to episode #232! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: How Porn Impacts our Relationship (Part 2 of Series)

In this powerful episode of the Pure Victory Podcast, Braden continues his series on the impact of pornography—this time focusing on how it affects our relationships. While last week explored porn’s effects on the brain, today’s conversation reveals how it dehumanizes others, erodes empathy, and distorts how we view love, sex, and connection.

Braden shares how porn creates unrealistic expectations, leading to disconnection in dating and marriage, and ultimately robs us of the ability to see others as God does—with dignity, value, and purpose. He reflects on his own journey and the broader cultural shifts that have normalized porn, even within the church.

Yet, this episode is filled with hope and truth. Brad reminds listeners that we are made in the image of God, and no matter our past, there is forgiveness, healing, and freedom in Christ. When we align with God’s design for sex and relationships—rooted in love, commitment, and respect—we can break free from shame and step into deeper, more meaningful connection.

🔥 Key Takeaways:

• Porn fosters selfishness and emotional detachment, especially in close relationships.
• It creates a false sense of intimacy and trains us to expect unrealistic fulfillment from others.
• Even within the church, porn use is widespread—but God's grace is greater.
• Healing begins when we step into the light, embrace community, and rediscover our identity in Christ.

🙏 Final Encouragement:

You’re not alone. Freedom is possible. With God’s help, your story can change—and your relationships can thrive. Take the first step today.

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BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com