Better Sex

236: The Transformative Handjob with Lee Jagger


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In this episode of Better Sex, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman interviews Lee Jagger, a sex coach specializing in helping women with male partners. Lee shares her journey from an unexpected start in erotic massage to becoming an expert with over 2000 clients and developing 69+ techniques for pleasuring men. They discuss the importance of communication, confidence, and overcoming discomfort in the bedroom. Lee emphasizes how women can enhance their intimate relationships by initiating and mastering various techniques while fostering stronger connections with their partners. The episode also covers practical advice for overcoming aversion to genital touch, techniques for men with erectile issues, and how mutual improvement in sexual skills can benefit both partners.


00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast

00:50 Meet Lee Jagger: From Homelessness to Sex Coaching

01:37 Lee's Journey into Erotic Massage

04:36 Transforming Personal and Professional Life

07:02 Empowerment Through Erotic Massage

08:17 Impact on Personal Relationships

12:55 Encouraging Women to Take the Lead

20:17 Overcoming Discomfort with Genital Touch

21:43 Non-Genital Touching Techniques

22:42 Introducing Intimacy Through Kindness

23:43 Understanding Male Anatomy

29:46 Communication and Consent in the Bedroom

37:50 Resources and Final Thoughts


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More info and resources:


Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast

Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast




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The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com

Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com

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