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243 — What Are You Avoiding? How to Stop Running and Start Living with Dr. Robyn Walser


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If you’ve ever sidestepped a tough conversation, ignored a problem, or avoided something that scares you, this episode is for you.

Avoidance and anxiety often go hand-on-hand. Avoiding a problem helps you feel better right now, but it leads to long-term problems. It also makes anxiety worse in the long run.

Today I’m joined by Dr. Robin Walser, clinical psychologist and expert in acceptance and commitment therapy. Together, we explore why we avoid, how it impacts our mental health, and—most importantly—how to break free from the avoidance cycle.

Some of the things we talk about are:

  • Why avoidance feels good in the short term but keeps you stuck in the long run
  • How avoidance shrinks your life and disconnects you from the things that matter most to you
  • The surprising ways avoidance is reinforced—and how to break the cycle
  • How to face uncomfortable emotions without feeling overwhelmed
  • Why connecting with your values can help you face the things you're trying to avoid
  • How to take small steps toward the things you’ve been avoiding
  • The link between facing your discomfort and mental strength
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