When it comes to sexual arousal, many of us reach for that excited, giddy, sometimes silly, sometimes serious, joyful, fulfilling feelings in the company of someone else that matters so much to us.

And how do you create a marriage relationship where there's room for two people to have a voice? And how do you create a sexual relationship where both people are excited and happy to be a part of it? Today's guest is Dr. Steven Snyder. He is a sex therapist from New York City, and the author of the book Love Worth Making, which I highly enjoyed. And I feel priviledged to host him on this podcast.

Here's what you'll learn in the episode:

• Why the sexual feelings we crave matter to you
• A two-step approach to finding it easier to connect to sexual motivation
• What "lazy sex" is and how you could put it to action in your own life, especially if you're busy
• The importance of this concept called "simmering" to foster desire
• The surprising difference between giving and taking pleasure

Note that this is a part one, so don't miss out on part two (available now!)

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