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Episode show notes:
Dishonesty is what destroys a relationship after pornography — not just the behavior itself.
Most wives will tell you the same thing: they can handle a mistake far better than they can handle being lied to about it.
Because every time the truth comes out later… it doesn’t just hurt again.
It makes her question what’s real.
And for him, it’s just as frustrating.
He knows he should be honest.
And somehow… it still happens.
In this episode, we break down why dishonesty keeps showing up in porn addiction recovery — even when both of you are trying — and why pushing harder for honesty hasn’t actually fixed it.
You’ll learn:
• Why dishonesty is often driven by fear, not character
Because here’s the part most couples haven’t been shown:
There is a reason this keeps happening.
That’s what we’re walking through today.
By Sam Tielemans, LMFT4.9
204204 ratings
Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use?
Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/
Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes?
Email me here:
Episode show notes:
Dishonesty is what destroys a relationship after pornography — not just the behavior itself.
Most wives will tell you the same thing: they can handle a mistake far better than they can handle being lied to about it.
Because every time the truth comes out later… it doesn’t just hurt again.
It makes her question what’s real.
And for him, it’s just as frustrating.
He knows he should be honest.
And somehow… it still happens.
In this episode, we break down why dishonesty keeps showing up in porn addiction recovery — even when both of you are trying — and why pushing harder for honesty hasn’t actually fixed it.
You’ll learn:
• Why dishonesty is often driven by fear, not character
Because here’s the part most couples haven’t been shown:
There is a reason this keeps happening.
That’s what we’re walking through today.

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