Welcome to episode #255! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: Karissa's Story (Part 2): From Confession to Courage
In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, we return to Karissa’s story and step deeper into the healing side of freedom. Karissa shares how shame and isolation kept her stuck, how confession broke addiction’s grip, and why community, support, and a renewed relationship with God were essential to staying free. This episode offers hope—especially for women who feel alone in their struggle—and paints a clear picture of what life can look like on the other side of secrecy and shame.

This is a raw, grace-filled conversation about courage, identity, forgiveness (including forgiving yourself), and discovering that God is not distant in our struggles—He’s deeply present.

🔑 Key Takeaways

• Confession is the starting line, not the finish line. Freedom grows when confession is paired with ongoing support and community.
• Shame thrives in secrecy—but loses its power when brought into the light.
• True healing goes beneath behavior to address identity, unmet desires, and underlying wounds.
• Forgiving yourself is often a missing piece of freedom. God’s grace must be received personally, not just intellectually.
• Intimacy with God changes desires. As love for Him grows, old patterns lose their appeal.
• Freedom in one area often unlocks freedom in others. Healing leads to courage, growth, and forward movement in life.

📖 Scriptural Highlight

“Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” — 2 Corinthians 3:17

This verse marked a turning point for Karissa, reminding us that freedom isn’t achieved through willpower—but through God’s Spirit at work in us.

🛠️ Action Items

• Break the silence: Share your struggle with one safe, trusted person—even if you’re still in it.
• Seek support: Consider a godly counselor, coach, or recovery group to walk alongside you.
• Spend intentional time with God: Read Scripture, pray honestly, and practice listening—especially around identity and forgiveness.
• Write down what you need to forgive yourself for and surrender it to God in prayer.
• Take the next courageous step: Don’t wait to feel “ready.” God meets us as we move forward.

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Podcast Host

BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com