Life Happens with Barb & Michelle

257 - The Void After You Get What You Wanted


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What happens after the book tour ends, the championship is won, and the calendar goes blank? Michelle opens up about the unexpected emptiness she felt after her biggest accomplishment, and Barb reveals something she has never experienced: a void. This mother-daughter conversation uncovers why success can feel like getting fired, what it means to live like you are running out of time, and why the quiet after the loud season might be the most important chapter of all.

This episode dives into the generational divide between pushing through and pausing, the difference between rest and avoidance, and how two very different people navigate the same transition. Whether you just graduated, finished a big project, ended a season, or closed a chapter you poured everything into, this conversation will help you understand why the void is not a problem to fix but a space to fill on your own terms.

What you'll take away:

  • Why achieving your biggest goal can feel like getting fired overnight
  • The generational difference between 'keep moving' and 'feel your feelings' after a big moment
  • How Barb's micro-transitions throughout the day prevent her from ever hitting empty
  • The connection between running out of time, grief, and never allowing a void
  • How to recognize when sitting in the void becomes productive reflection vs. staying stuck


Don't let the quiet after the loud season convince you that the best part is over. Learn how to make the space count.

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0:00 — Intro: Michelle's post-book-tour void

0:58 — Welcome to Life Happens with Barb and Michelle

1:14 — It's bigger than a book: any major milestone

1:45 — Indiana football national championship & the "now what?"

2:44 — Barb's reaction: the joy of the unexpected

3:51 — Michelle's book journey and the feeling of the drop-off

7:39 — Barb never felt a void — a generational contrast

14:35 — What is rest? Defining it differently for everyone

21:32 — Vulnerable question: does living like you're running out of time come from grief?

24:28 — How will you know when you've done what you came here to do?

38:32 — Barb's Italy trip: sometimes the transition is fast

41:01 — Closing reflections & takeaways


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