In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman welcomes a former student who shares his personal journey of overcoming years of intimacy struggles in his marriage. The guest recounts how early retirement and his wife's menopause led to a five-year period of no sexual contact, deteriorating communication, and his eventual realization of the depth of his wife's unhappiness. He discusses the transformative impact of joining Jess’s program, which guided him to listen actively, practice mindfulness, and change his behavior. The episode provides a heartfelt exploration of how vulnerability, patience, and open-hearted communication can lead to profound relationship improvements, culminating in a complete turnaround in their sex life and emotional connection.

00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast

00:45 A Personal Story of Struggles and Triumphs

02:16 The Beginning of the Journey

04:50 Facing the Reality of Intimacy Issues

06:00 The Turning Point: Joining the Program

08:00 Transformative Changes and New Insights

11:08 Deepening Communication and Understanding

14:45 The Impact of Active Listening

18:28 Overcoming Challenges Together

23:08 Reflecting on the Journey and Moving Forward

24:58 Discovering the Exit Plan

25:18 Slow Progress and Patience

29:04 Positive Shifts in the Relationship

35:18 A Dramatic Change

44:33 Advice for Others in Similar Situations

46:58 Conclusion and Gratitude

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More info and resources:

Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast

Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com

The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com

The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com

Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com

Access the Free webinar: Intimacy Made Easy: 3 Secrets to Bridging Libido Differences: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass