Certain beliefs in relationships are like undercover agents, quietly wreaking havoc beneath the surface. They slip in, often unnoticed, yet their impact can be profound.

Have you ever noticed how convincing yourself about what your partner is thinking can be astonishingly deceptive? It's one of those sneaky things we do. 

The romanticization of relationships we're bombarded with through the media has convinced 

ourselves that mind-reading is not only desirable but possible.

But mind-reading isn't an option. It's more like a setup for disappointment and resentment. The mental gymnastics we perform to decipher the other person's thoughts is where the trouble brews.

It's not just about us, though. The narratives we weave around ourselves and our partners are equally potent. These thoughts can be a powerful catalyst for growth or a silent cause of suffering. 

So today, I'm shining a spotlight on three sneaky beliefs that quietly corrode relationships. And we're not stopping at just identifying them. We're exploring how to defy their corrosive impact.

What I mention in this episode:

• Why do relationships take place in our heads
• Why it’s impossible to read the other person’s mind
• Why do you create a bar of expectations that may hurt you  

What you'll learn from it:

• It’s normal to have mixed and complicated feelings about the people you love  
• How to choose thoughts that create less suffering for you 
• How to respond to a situation depending on the stories you made in your head  
• Exercises to start grasping these concepts

Ready to expose these beliefs? Join me as we unravel their grip and arm ourselves with tools to nurture healthier, happier relationships.

With love, Kavetha

PS- Changing sneaky thought patterns is possible. If you need help figuring out where to start, I can help you. 

HYR is a program specifically designed for women. It includes evidence-based tools, training, and a community to learn how to choose your thoughts. 

In this 10-week program, you will get the HYR™ Framework and Tools and weekly calls with certified coaches privately and in a group environment with other women. 

Book your free call here: https://healyourrelationships.com/heal-your-relationships/    

In This Episode:

00:00 Welcome back to another episode of Emotional Mastery

01:14 It’s a time of transition    

02:13 Questions I have been getting about sneaky beliefs 

03:18 Sneaky belief #1   

05:59 You have complicated feelings about the people in your life 

10:45 Sneaky belief #2  

12:27 Create the experiences you want in your head   

14:58 Sneaky belief #3 

18:40 Exercises for practicing these concepts  

19:07 Summary of the episode 

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