高中好友意外身亡后，他成了疯狂读书的泡妞专家

Mark Manson是美国著名的博客作者，出身于富裕家庭，但从小不喜欢循规蹈矩的生活，喜欢所有年轻人喜欢的：瞎混、泡妞，直到自己最好的朋友意外丧生，改变了他的人生态度。他开始学习，疯狂滴读书，但还是继续坚持泡妞。24岁时他受不了朝九晚五的生活，开始“互联网创业”：其实就是开了个博客写自己关于情感的体会（泡妞心得），结果成了情感专家，博客大红，也顺利转型成为数字游民。再之后，结婚，不再乱泡妞，定居纽约。对了这哥们84年出生，比我还年轻，叹一口气。

这本书的书名可以翻译为“关于去他妈的精妙艺术”，用直白的语言，浑不吝的口气开篇，让你觉得Mark对于什么都是“去他妈的”不在乎。但读上几章你会发现，其实每个人都会有在乎的事，最关键的在于认清自己在乎的事情后，对其他事就“去你妈的”吧。

A book written by a dating coach can help you find out life's meaning? It sounds like bullshit, or maybe not. The fact is, a dating coach wrote a New York Times best selling non-dating theme book, so it probably got something. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson is a book with easily understandable language, meaningful stories, and deep value for life. You may find the first few chapters are too hippie to take it seriously, but then, you will immerse into the stories and start to think your own life, value, family, friendship and other things.

Actually, the book is about to give a fuck on something. But first, you are going to find what are the things you want and should give a fuck, and it depends on your own value, which is different from other people. I love the story about two former rock n' roll band members, Dave Mustaine, and Pete Best. Their different value causes their feeling about life so different from each other, though their experience was quite similar: been kicked out by their bands, Metallica and the Beatles.

If I need to use one sentence to describe the book for you, I gonna say, 'life is too short to spend on the things you don't give a fuck.' Find your value, give a fuck on them, and live.

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