In this episode, we continue our conversation about intimacy in marriage—this time from the husband’s perspective. In the previous episode, Amy shared the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew, and now it’s Nate’s turn to reveal the things men wish they could tell their wives—but often don’t know how to say.

If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on in your husband’s mind when it comes to intimacy, this episode is a must-listen. Nate dives into helping wives understand what their husbands wish their spouse new.

Here’s just a glimpse of what we’re covering:

Don’t Use Sex as a Weapon – How intimacy should never be used as punishment, leverage, or control.
He Wants to See You – Why visual connection is important for him and how body confidence plays a role.
Tell Him Clearly – Husbands aren’t mind readers—here’s why clear communication makes all the difference.
Flirt with Him – How small moments of playfulness, teasing, and attraction fuel long-term intimacy.
He Wants You to Want It – Why feeling desired (not just obligated) is a game-changer for your marriage.
It’s Not You, It’s Him – Understanding how stress, performance anxiety, and external pressures can impact a husband’s intimacy.

Many wives assume that men just “want sex” without deeper emotional needs, but the truth is, intimacy is about so much more for husbands. They long to feel wanted, respected, and deeply connected—and when that happens, everything in marriage gets better.

This is an episode you don’t want to miss! Whether you’re a wife who wants to better understand your husband or a husband who’s struggling to express what you truly need, this conversation will bring clarity, connection, and maybe even some breakthroughs in your marriage.

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