The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

341. The Emotional Costs Of Being In A Sexless Marriage


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If you’ve been a longtime listener of our podcast, you know that we always emphasize the deep connection between emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy. The two are inseparable—when one is lacking, the other suffers. And when sexual intimacy begins to fade in a marriage, the emotional toll can be devastating.

In this episode, we tackle a difficult but necessary conversation: the emotional impacts of a sexless (or nearly sexless) marriage and why, if left unaddressed, it often leads to divorce.

We’ll discuss:

  • Why sex is more than just physical—It’s a bonding experience that builds trust, connection, and closeness.
  • How emotional and physical intimacy fuel each other—When physical affection disappears, so does emotional security, leading to loneliness, resentment, and disconnection.
  • What happens to a marriage when one spouse feels rejected—Lack of intimacy can make one or both spouses feel unwanted, unseen, or unloved, creating a wedge in the relationship.
  • Why resentment builds over time—When needs aren’t met, frustration and bitterness take over, making it even harder to reconnect.

And much more!

But we’re not just here to talk about the problems—we’re here to offer real solutions. If you’re struggling in this area, or you don't want to ever struggle in this area, this podcast episode is for you! 

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