In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes Junvi Ola, who shares her personal story of overcoming vaginismus, a condition that prevented her from having intercourse until the age of 36. Junvi discusses her journey, which included working with a sex therapist, using dilators, and eventually hiring a surrogate partner. The episode provides insights and inspiration for those facing similar struggles, highlighting the bravery and determination required to break through such challenges.

00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast

01:46 Junvi's Personal Story Begins

02:30 The Impact of Early Experiences

03:42 Struggles with Intimacy and Seeking Help

06:09 Discovering Vaginismus

07:46 Therapy and Overcoming Mental Barriers

14:28 Exploring Sex Surrogacy

19:37 Choosing a Therapist

19:53 The Triad Therapy Experience

20:42 Invitation to Share Your Story

21:11 Overcoming Fear and Dilator Use

22:16 First Steps with the Surrogate Partner

23:18 Sensate Touching and Emotional Challenges

24:22 The Turning Point

25:43 Achieving Penetration

28:25 Focusing on Pleasure and Education

32:03 Reflecting on the Journey

34:07 Normalizing Vaginismus and Surrogate Use

38:02 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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