Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

384: What's the impact of circumcision on a man? (ft. Michael Smith, Intactivist Educator)


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In North America, we tend to think of circumcision as "normal" and "widespread." But did you know that circumcision as a practice only became widespread in the US in the mid 1900s?

So what's the deal? Why did it originate as a practice and why has it persisted? And perhaps most importantly, what is the impact on a man -- both physiologically as well as psychologically?

The answers may surprise you -- I know they did me. I was unaware, for example, of the extent to which intact foreskin helps a man with sexual pleasure. I also didn't realize that foreskin restoration is a thing -- that if you've been circumcised, there's actually a way to re-grow foreskin.

There's a lot of intensity and sensitivity around this subject, and for good reason: It matters deeply. If you yourself are circumcised, you have loved ones who are, and especially if you're a parent-to-be, please listen. It's important.

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Memorable quotes:
  • “Much of the history is murky.”
  • “I acutely felt the feeling of being different.”
  • “Dollars per hour, circumcision is the most lucrative thing a doctor can do.”
  • “Circumcision is estimated to be a $5B/year industry in the US.”
  • “Men don’t like to feel like victims.”
  • “Most responses are silence.”
  • “There’s an unconscious desire to control the sexuality of children.”
  • “‘OK, something really bad happened to me.’”
  • “It ends with me.”
  • "This can be a story of resilience and triumph."

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Mentioned on this episode:
  • Book rec: Circumcision: The Hidden Trauma -- How an American Cultural Practice Affects Infants and Ultimately Us All
  • Documentary on Netflix: American Circumcision
  • Subreddit dedicated to foreskin restoration: www.reddit.com/r/foreskin_restoration/
  • For more on our upcoming course, Sexual Mastery, go to melaniecurtin.com/sexualmastery
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