Dr. Robert Glover is a therapist, coach, speaker, and best-selling author. Dr Glover is a relationship expert with over 40 years of professional experience. Dr Glover is the author of the groundbreaking, No More Mr. Nice Guy, the best-selling Dating Essentials for Men, and the recently released, Dating Essentials for Men: Frequently Asked Questions, Dr. Glover has helped thousands of men world-wide transform their lives and get what they want in relationship, sex, and career.In this episode today, we discuss:- Why you don't want to be a nice guy- Where the nice guy comes from- Where nice guy syndrome comes from- Why you should confront your earliest attachment roots- The role of Shame - How to be more attractive & more0:00 - Understanding nice guy syndrome03:00 - How society treats the nice guy07:15 - Dr Murray Bowen - Fusion & Differentiation14:50 - How family expectations shape attachment25:00 - Childhood influences on adult relationships33:01 - Why you may need to confront your parents 49:99 - Understanding and healing shame01:00:09 - How to be masculine and vulnerable 01:08:25 - What a truly attractive man looks like01:09:10 - How to create deep vulnerability01:12:10 - The boundary hack if you've been disrespected01:15:09 - Connect with Dr GloverConnect with Dr Glover: https://www.drglover.com - Websitehttps://twitter.com/dr_r_glover?s=20 - TwitterConnect with us:Links:https://freedompact.co.uk/newsletter​ (Healthy, Wealthy & Wise Newsletter)https://www.Instagram.com/freedompactwhttps://ww.twitter.com/freedompactpod Email: [email protected] https://Tiktok.com/personaldevelopmentDISCLAIMER: The content provided by the Freedom Pact Podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Our content is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.