As I mentioned in episode 3, the “we aren’t having enough sex talk” isn’t helping couples have & enjoy more sex. It’s creating obligation sex or pity sex instead. Communication doesn’t always mean talking. Communication can happen through the vibe and energy we carry around with us and it can also happen through our behaviors, lifestyle choices and our inactions. There’s a certain set of skills and lifestyle choices that a husband and wife can learn that will turn on and up a woman’s sexual desire. I introduce some of them here in this episode. Its more productive to spend your time and energy in these skills and behaviors then to have another talk about needing more sex.