It’s that pivotal scene in the movie: The couple who has been at odds is about to consummate their passion and get into bed. Things are getting steamy, clothes are being thrown around, and then they’re under the sheets. But did anyone reach for protection? A condom? A dental dam? Anything?

With references to protection being left out of scenes like this in movies, books, and porn, it begs the question: Can safe sex be sexy? And if not, what are the consequences? According to nurse practitioner Lisa Bayani, it’s up to you to make sure you’re being safe and healthy with your sexual practices—sexy or not.

In this episode of Your Secret is Safe with Me, Dr. Marie Murphy sits down with nurse practitioner Lisa Bayani to talk about safe sex 101. They discuss the different types of sexually transmitted infections, what to do if you need treatment and privacy, and how COVID-19 has added a new layer to the practice of safe sex. Tune in to hear how you can make sure you’re practicing safety in a sexy way.