UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

433. Coaching Hotline: How to Not Take On Other People’s Pain


Listen Later

In this week's Coaching Hotline episode, I answer two listener questions that get to the heart of managing our emotions and taking action despite resistance. The first listener struggles with guilt when their actions unintentionally cause someone they love pain. The second listener is trying to build a consistent thought work routine, but often doesn’t feel like doing it and avoids the work.

Through hearing my answers to these questions, you’ll learn why it's not your job to manage or fix others’ emotions, and how taking responsibility for them only adds unnecessary guilt and keeps you stuck. You’ll also discover how to change your relationship with the “I don’t want to” thought and how successful people show up and take action regardless of their feelings.


Submit your own question here and it might get answered on a future episode: unfuckyourbrain.com/coachinghotline


Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: schoolofnewfeministthought.com/433


Follow along on Instagram: instagram.com/karaloewentheil/

Mentioned in this episode:

Learn How to Stop Caring What Other People Think

Get this FREE workshop + guide by going to: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/hsc

Get the How to Stop Caring What Other People Think Workshop here!

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for EveryoneBy Kara Loewentheil

  • 4.6
  • 4.6
  • 4.6
  • 4.6
  • 4.6

4.6

5,080 ratings


More shows like UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

View all
The Life Coach School Podcast by Brooke Castillo

The Life Coach School Podcast

8,841 Listeners

Good Life Project by Jonathan Fields / Acast

Good Life Project

3,322 Listeners

The Overwhelmed Brain by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert

The Overwhelmed Brain

1,895 Listeners

The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome by Trish Blackwell

The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome

1,487 Listeners

The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych by Robert Duff, Ph.D.

The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

966 Listeners

10% Happier with Dan Harris by 10% Happier

10% Happier with Dan Harris

12,731 Listeners

The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair by Michelle Chalfant

The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair

1,541 Listeners

Help Me Be Me by Cloud10

Help Me Be Me

1,811 Listeners

The Lawyer Stress Solution by Kara Loewentheil | Anxiety hacks from a cognitive life coach for lawyers, d

The Lawyer Stress Solution

29 Listeners

Feminist Wellness by Béa Victoria Albina

Feminist Wellness

972 Listeners

Habits of A Goddess by CAKE MEDIA

Habits of A Goddess

514 Listeners

The Mindset Babe | Self-Love, Confidence, Motivation, Mental Health, & Personal Growth by Perry Richardson | Life Coach + Mindset Expert

The Mindset Babe | Self-Love, Confidence, Motivation, Mental Health, & Personal Growth

246 Listeners

Financial Feminist by Her First $100K

Financial Feminist

6,390 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

We Can Do Hard Things

41,506 Listeners

Outside the White Box by Kara Loewentheil and Simone Seol

Outside the White Box

51 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,335 Listeners

The Sabrina Zohar Show by The Sabrina Zohar Show

The Sabrina Zohar Show

4,978 Listeners