Smart Dating Academy - The Podcast

46: How to Find an Awesome Husband in your 30's (even when you're a successful professional)!


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Nicky's love story is amazing. She met Bela at a holiday party sometime around 2010 when she was in her 20s (Nicky was a colleague of Bela's husband Andy at the time).

She was a successful professional who didn't have a lot of relationship experience, and pursued dating as she would her work life. Trying different things like matchmaking, speed dating, How About We, dating apps -- but had an epiphany that was work related. She said, "if I was doing something at work for 10 years and didn't get the results I wanted, I would really reevaluate and change my approach." She enlisted some help from Smart Dating Academy at the age of 34, and found love just before the pandemic, and prevailed over the pandemic. She got engaged recently in Italy, and will share her awesome and relatable story in this episode. If you are looking for a husband and maybe kids in your 20s, 30s, or 40s - or just a partner at any age, listen to this episode for inspiration and delight! You'll hear:

  • How Nicky was floored at how her approach to dating wasn't working, and what 'video' inspired her to change

  • How she BECAME the fun that she wanted to have on dates

  • How she dated before (just swiping 'quantitatively), and looking for instant

  • chemistry

  • What SDA rule she "expedited" under careful guidance

  • How she didn't own any flour when Lucas asked her to cook pizza at her

  • apartment

  • Why Elevator people make ALL the difference

  • How Lucas made her feel on the first date (which was different than ANYONE

  • else she had dated)....
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