Podcast #465

Being Yourself When You Feel Disconnected from Others

 

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're talking about….

* What to do when you feel like you don't belong, and you're not happy alone and not comfortable around people.

* How to connect when you feel unable to connect or connecting feels flat or insincere and unfulfilling

* Managing the fear of being misunderstood and hesitation in wanting to speak up, post or have a voice out of fear that good intentions might be misconstrued

 

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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOU DON'T BELONG

Learn how to be by yourself, and what the normal amount of down time is by yourself.

Know what your head says to yourself when you're lonely.

Mine says:

You don't matter.

No one cares about you.

What you do doesn't matter.

You're alone.

Nothing matters.

Everyone else is doing something interesting.

* Recognize the lies.

* Learn to like spending time with yourself.

* Normalize boredom.

* Admit that you're lonely, but know you're not alone; it's not just you.

* Write down positive memories or gratitude.

* Intentionally pursue connection with others- people or animals, known or unknown.

* Create a schedule, including a bedtime. (Sadness amplifies at night)

It's harder to feel alone when you have a plan and a purpose.

 

HOW TO CONNECT WHEN YOU FEEL UNABLE TO CONNECT

…Or connecting feels flat and insincere and unfulfilling

Take away the vanity metrics of superficial and insincere relationships and connections on social media.

Every connection you have is gold - don't downplay connection you do have because that person "is supposed to like you or help you"

Connection is vulnerable.

But you are brave, and open.

You are willing to be seen, and if you are, you will be able to connect.