Heal Your Relationships

5. The Downside to Unconditional Support


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Most of us have been exposed to the upside of unconditional support.

It feels fuzzy, lovely, and warm; it’s ideal.


But as much as I’m a huge fan of creating safety in relationships, I am NOT a fan of unconditional support.


What?!


Why would I believe in emotional safety, but not unconditional support?


There was a time in my life when I had unconditional support, but it actually hindered my growth and healing journey.


There is a difference between unconditional safety and unconditional support.


This week, I’m sharing what that difference is, and a personal experience that brought this home for me in my own life.


Discover the most efficient way to permanent healing and how to apply this to your parenting, relationships, or any other area of your life.


In This Episode:

02:05 Healed individuals create a ripple effect. Here’s how…

03:14 Find out why I’m not a fan of unconditional support

03:30 An update on the in-person retreat originally planned for February 2023

05:12 I’m sharing a story that brought this home for me in my own life

07:35 I loved going to therapy, but it wasn’t always helping me with my growth. This is why…

09:43 Growth cannot happen in THIS circumstance…

13:50 This is something that a lot of coaches and therapists do not understand...

15:34 Want to know if learning has happened? This is the ONLY way…

16:08 The reason many of us are in and out of therapy for decades

 

Connect with Dr. Kavetha Sundaramoorthy:

  • Rapid Relationship Repair FREE Mini-Course - https://bit.ly/RapidRelationshipRepair
  • Come join us in our free Facebook group Your Brain on Trauma, where is a whole community of women just like you who are on this sacred healing journey: https://www.facebook.com/groups/rm4fp/
  • Sign up for the retreat in February here: https://bit.ly/TheClearingLIVE


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